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writes: I was wondering if any of you has an idea of how guys go on about laying a girl down gently. I met this guy 6 months ago online and then he flew in to see me, we went out twice, then he went again on a business tour and will be back in a week or so. During that time, we exchanged emails, texts and few phone calls, in which he was nice but kept saying he was bloody busy and had some probs, then on our last call he sounded ill as he was down with fever. This morning, he texted me at the crack of dawn to tell me sorry he couldn't keep in touch because he's not only been ill but also depressed. Any idea what is going on with him. Does he want my sympathy or is he letting me down gently but I'm not taking the hint. Please help. One more thing, when we talked on the phone and he sounded ill, I told him I'll make the phone call nice and short so that he can relax and not speak as he had a sorethroat and a bad cough...Please elp! ta x
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2012): Are all your recent questions about the same man????
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (6 February 2012):
 I'd back off if I were you. Don't call, tweet, email etc...Let him do all the pursuing. I think you will have your answer in short order.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2012): Sounds like one of those things where if he is going to be in your area on business, he'll call you to go out. I don't think you are the only woman he has been talking to online and meeting up with though.
It's easy to get to know several people online but much harder to put that time into one woman. If you aren't getting that time, it means there are other women in the picture or that he doesn't want what you have to get deeper and more involved.
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