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writes: Hi everyone:Hope you guys can give me your opinion. I have been good friends with this guy for awhile. Last week his mother and sister showed up at an event where I was with him. It was unexpected on my part but he knew they were coming. Do you think for him to be introducing them to me must mean he has real feelings for me, maybe even more than just friendship? I have always thought he had feelings for me. Thank you all for your replies! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (16 February 2012):
It's simply good manners to introduce whomever you are with when you encounter people YOU know. Did he say "This is my special friend, good friend, girlfriend (your name)" or did he just say "This is (your name)"? This event, was it a date he made with you? I think you need to give us more information to garner the best responses.
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (16 February 2012):
As a rule, I never introduced a woman I was dating to my family unless I thought I was going to keep her around for a while. So, yes.
Good Luck!
Jeff
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (15 February 2012):
IF'n he had introduced you by saying "Hi, Mom and Sis.... meet your future daughter- and sister-in-law"..... THEN I would have given the encounter as much credence as you have...
I'm a little surprised that he hadn't said to you, "You know, my Mother and Sister will be at the same event where we're going tonight. IF we see them, I'll be sure to introduce you to them."
Nonetheless.... whether or not he gave you advance notice.... I think you're reading 'way too much in to it that he introduced you to them.....
Good luck....
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