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writes:Ok, does this mean anything? Or am I reading into it too much because iv got feelings for him?..... He accidentaly bumped me with the door (I was entering, he was coming out) .... It wasn't hard at all and it didn't hurt at all.... He was very apologetic and kind of held the arm he had bumped, and one hand on my shoulder (stood almost behind me) said sorry are you ok etc. I said it's fine and laughed. Because it really was nothing. He let go then kind of rubbed the arm and said sorry again. ..... A while later (about 2 hours) he came up behind me, again rubbed my arm and again apologised. ..... His touch did seem to last a little longer than usual and not going to lie, I enjoyed it. However after coming home iv decided it's just wishful thinking?.... but on the other hand, if it had been me I would have given someone a quick tap and said sorry, especially because he'd have been able to tell that the door didn't hit me hard at all, more like just bumped me gently! What do you guys think? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys, but my question wasn't whether the bumping was an accident, it obviously was!.... It was the way he acted after, lingering touch, rubbing my arm etc....
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (7 February 2012):
 Put your arm in a sling and see how he reacts.
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reader, Jess10011 +, writes (7 February 2012):
It sounds like flirting to me. Have fun and flirt back and see what happens....next time you see him accidently run into him and she what happens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2012): Sounds like your overthinking......but if these 'accidents' continue then you will know he's after your attention
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reader, mammaboo +, writes (7 February 2012):
 Wishful thinking? Sounds like you want something to come of it. So why don,t you make more of the issue and approach him with a big thankyou for being so concerned and would he like to go out sometime?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2012): Go with your gut feeling. I think it was flirting, have fun flirt back. Next time you see make yourself bump into him and see what happens...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2012): Well we are not all alike and maybe he is just a caring kind of guy. Try not to read too much into it. If he wants to get to know you better he will do something about it - after all he could come and apologise again as an opening line.
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