I'm eight months pregnant and the baby's father is incommunicado.
Q. Hello, I need some advice please, I'm 35 weeks pregnant and the baby's father hasn't been in contact with me since we split up 3 month ago. I've tried ringing him and have had no answer to my calls or texts. Its like he isn't interested, and I hear ...
A. 30 January 2012: Make sure you get child support from the guy.... (read in full...)
Circumcized or uncircumsized? Which do females prefer?
Q. Hi, I want to know if girls like penis uncircumcised or cirmcumcised? I'm french and in my country we are all uncut. It's about religion and culture, what is it in your country (well about muslim and jew I know) but for others country pls let ...
A. 30 January 2012: A few hours after my son was born, the nurse came in and picked him up out of his incubator and told me they were going to "sharpen his pencil". I always thought that was a rather weird turn of phrase and I kind of regretted signing the consent.... (read in full...)
Is there really a 'generic' cheaper Viagra or like name brand men can buy?
Q. Is there really a generic Viagra or like name brand men can buy? Does anyone in the U.S. know of a tried and true ID pill that really works...not the fake stuff that claims to grow your penis. We have been dealing with ID for over a year now, ...
A. 30 January 2012: It's ED not ID. An most insurance will only cover 6 pills. As far as I know it isn't available in generic form however the patent will run out sooner or later.... (read in full...)
How can I hint to him not to get me silver as I'm allergic to it?
Q. hi there agony aunts and uncles, thanks for the good advice i have had from you with problems i have put on here, and also helped everytime, im just wanting to know and i feel a little cheeky saying this, but how do i hint to my boyfriend of nearly ...
A. 27 January 2012: Get clear nail polish and coat the earring backs, posts, and or wires. It works like a charm. It will need to be done again after many wears.... (read in full...)
How can I build a motherdaughter relationship with my stepmother?
Q. Well i'm 13, and when i was 8 my mom and dad split because my mom fell in love with a black guy. At the time i didn't understand i was only told that my mom and dad didn't love each other anymore. Me and my dad were so close that i wanted to l...
A. 27 January 2012: Just quit acting like a spoiled brat to her and the relationship between you two will begin to flourish. Start behaving yourself and she'll figure it out.... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 27 January 2012: The couch in the den isn't that comfortable anyway. Best wishes Kiddo.... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 26 January 2012: Stay with me? Well I guess I can make up the couch in the den........ (read in full...)
What should a teenager wear to a posh restaurant?
Q. Hey guys, I am to go out with a "friend" on saturday night for dinner and I don't know what to wear, basically. We're both 17 so it's not like I have a suit and I wouldn't really feel comfortable in a shirt/trousers. It is a posh restaurant and i...
A. 25 January 2012: Really nice restaurants sometimes require a tie so I would wear one or bring one along. Do you have a nice sweater to wear over the shrirt and tie?... (read in full...)
How do I handle this relationship? He's 22 and I'm 15. My parents do not know about him yet
Q. I've got a situation.. I'm a 15 year old girl that's in love with a 22 year old man. I met him when I had just turned 15 one month before and he had been 21 for about 7 months. We started talking and when we hung out for the first time it was like...
A. 24 January 2012: What I'd like to know is how you can constantly hang out with the guy when he's home and not have your parents know. Heckfire you can't even drive yet! What's wrong with parents these days?... (read in full...)
I am tempted to have sex with my ex. He is flirting with me and I really would like to respond! Please advice?
Q. Hey guys, I'm getting tempted by my ex and don't want to cheat on my bf, what should I do? My ex sends me racy FB and text messages, and has asked for/sent me pictures of himself in various stages of undress, telling me what he would do to me if we ...
A. 24 January 2012: You either care about hurting other people or you don't. You either have honor and integrity or you don't. We are a bunch of anonymous people on the internet who certainly cannot be expected to build your character for you. ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to sleep with your first cousin ?
Q. i have left my husband and son and am sleeping with my first cousin,i have my teenage daughter with me and am living just a few yards from my husband and son.my son is very upset and thinks he and his sister will get a lot of bullying form other ...
A. 21 January 2012: Okay which one of you blew out the margin? Humm Mitch?... (read in full...)
Why do teenagers get more criticism, when they become pregnant?
Q. ok im 18 now and before i tell u my story i have a question.. why is it that when somebody young ends up pregnant they are judged and discouraged. sometimes even pretty much told to have an abortion..when we can be just as good as parents as some 30 ...
A. 21 January 2012: 'When I was a child, I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child. But when I grew up, I put away childish things." I had 3+ boyfriends during my teenage years. Each of whom I was sure was my soulmate I was destined to marry. You could of talked to ... (read in full...)
Am I Playing Hard To Get?
Q. A guy I went out with twice texted me on the fourth day saying he had fun but he'll be out of town on business during the week. He asked to see me on the following weekend but we didn't say when, what time, etc. There was no other contact during ...
A. 20 January 2012: I think you absolutely did the right thing. What did he expect, that you should leave your entire weekend open waiting to hear from him? Nuts to that, you taught him a lesson he needed to learn.... (read in full...)
What are girl's erect penis shape fantasies?
Q. I Always wonder what erect penis shape makes girls more horny when they look at it (upward , downward or straight) ? and why? what shape of erect penis(upward , downward or straight) do you girls imagine in your fantaces? PLEASE answ...
A. 20 January 2012: The only time I had a penis fantasy was when we went camping and forgot the tent pole.... (read in full...)
Online fling caused my guy to walk out of a 3 year relationship?
Q. Is a stupid online fling what i had a good reason for my guy of 3 years to walk out on me and our 2 kids? I never even went meeting the guy. The worst i did was a bit of naughty chat. Would you agony aunts think he was looking for an excuse to bail ...
A. 20 January 2012: He who is unfaithful in little will be unfaithful in much.... (read in full...)
How do you live up to the reputation of a man's 1st love?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend almost half a year. its my 2nd relationship. hes had lots if im honest but only ever been in love once, with his fisrt girlfriend. and i feel like i'll never be able to match her or be as good as her. he told me himself ...
A. 19 January 2012: He told you you were 2nd best? What a tool. Why on earth would you be willing to settle for that?... (read in full...)
How to keep my new girlfriend from cheating, without seeming over-bearing?
Q. I am a girl, with a girlfriend and we have been together for a month and a few days. I looked at her facebook the other day and a girl she used to have a thing with has been messaging her, and she's been texting her phone also. To keep my girlf...
A. 19 January 2012: Do you think that maybe your relationship is a tad lopsided? Perhaps you are more committed to it than she is. The only way to truly find out is to let her have the freedom to make her own decisions. Trying to control another person never works out ... (read in full...)
How close is too close?
Q. Hi Advice sought on how to handle a prospective 13 year old step daughter. She came to stay with us for the school holidays (nearly 5 weeks). It has been one of the most stressful times for me as she seems to have set up some kind of competit...
A. 18 January 2012: I'm with Cindy, just wait it out, once she sees you're in it for good, she most likely with scale things down. Also when new boyfriends appear on the scene she'll be less interested in getting all of Dad's attention. Time is your best friend on this ... (read in full...)
Can all women have squirting orgasms?
Q. I'm in my early 40's and my question is about squirting orgasms, which I have never had. I have had a vaginal orgasm only twice, both on my own. Most of my orgasms are clitoral and extremely satisfying. Do you think it is true that every woman...
A. 18 January 2012: I squirt when I sneeze does that count?... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love but he hasn't called me in a week
Q. So here is my problem. I think that I am in love. This makes absolutely no sense. Here is my story... I was in his class, he was my professor, I his student. There was some sexual comments made but never to the extent where someone would report it, ...
A. 17 January 2012: Maybe he decided that his job was more important than a fling with a coed. If you are a student at the sam university that he teaches at, whether directly a student of his or not, he can get sacked.... (read in full...)
I can't stand my boyfriend's best friend and I don't know what to do about it.
Q. I'm having an issue with my boyfriend's bestfriend. They've been friends since they were babies but I can't stand him. I just think he's an idiot and a bad influence. I normally have a high tolerance for people but I actually can't stand to be ...
A. 11 January 2012: If you can't put up with the guy then I guess you will have to break up with your boyfriend. You certainly have no right to tell him who he can and cannot have as a friend.... (read in full...)
Why do men send flowers?
Q. What does it mean when a guy sends you flowers? Does it mean he likes you or he's expressing his feelings for you indirectly?...
A. 10 January 2012: It means that he forgot that Saturday was your anniversary and got up early and went fishing instead of snuggling in bed then going out to breakfast with the love of his life and now he knows he'd better do something quick fast and in a hurry or ... (read in full...)
What do you think about during sex?
Q. I am curious to know what other people think about during sex. I asked a girlfriend this once and she laughed and then started to speak, but then declined to answer saying that it would ruin it for her if she told me. I am guessing my w...
A. 10 January 2012: Beige...I think I'll paint the ceiling beige....... (read in full...)
If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him?
Q. If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him? I wish I knew these sorts of things intuitively without having to ask people. I have been diagnosed with Asperger syndrom...
A. 10 January 2012: Honeypie hold your breath for 10 seconds...you have the hiccups. Or try to drink a glass of water upside down.... (read in full...)
Thinking about leaving my career for a few years when I have children to avoid daycare costs, is this wrong?
Q. Just wanting others honest opinions on this and what I should do! I'm university educated, been in a great job since uni. My partner also has a great secure job. We both earn an average wage so not high but not something we struggle on. I d...
A. 10 January 2012: Not weird just totally refreshing to hear from a woman who is far-sighted and actually PLANNING for her future children's welfare. You go girl.... (read in full...)
My husband, the stripper and the bouncer
Q. A few days ago, my husband came to me and told me that he had been taken advantage of by a stripper. He had gone to a strip club for lunch and a show. A stripper convinced him to go in the back room for a private dance for $20. Once there, she ...
A. 10 January 2012: What Cerberus said. Long ago we had a guy who tried explain to his wife that "the woman accidentally fell on his penis". Time for a nice chat with the hubby.... (read in full...)
He wants pictures of my private bits, what should I do?
Q. I talked to this guy once on the phone, i'm not sure how old he is, he is divorced and has a daughter that lives with his ex and he sees his daughter on the weekends. we chatted a little bit and he wants me to send pictures of my breasts and my ...
A. 9 January 2012: Holy Moley, have you been living in a cave for 30 years or more? Of course you shouldn't send him any crotch shots; you also should lose his number and change yours. After that maybe you should hire a tutor to get you acquainted to 2012.... (read in full...)
I love her and I think she loves me. What next?
Q. Scenario: Me, a jovial, good looking 30 year old bachelor who is living abroad on the other side of the world for a year, until May. Her, my best friend. Me, I think about her every day, morning and night, and I've now been away 7 mont...
A. 6 January 2012: Take it slowly, relax, and enjoy your budding romance when you get back in May.... (read in full...)
What is worse: His age difference or his lie?
Q. My BF says he is 38, but i found out he is 45. And i'm 27. Should the lie or the big age difference bother me? Is it too much of a difference? We are planning to take the r/ship to the next level....
A. 6 January 2012: I think both the huge lie AND the age difference should be all it takes for you to close this chapter.... (read in full...)
I'm not treated as an adult and my family favour my brother, how do I deal with this?
Q. i have recently had my 21st birthday. before i go on i want to say that i am not a spoilt child, i have worked since i was 16 now work in the city for a large commerical firm after completing my degree. i have always struggled at home, i fought for ...
A. 6 January 2012: I still think you need to get yourself your OWN home. There is a time when you need to leave the nest Honey, and this is it.... (read in full...)
I just found out my partner was a prostitute
Q. Just found out that my partner was a prostitute - apparently a one off that she dreadfully regrets...I love her but am at a loss what to do now...sorry so short but I'm too upset for many details. ...
A. 5 January 2012: Hey TELLULAH, is that avatar a green butt?... (read in full...)
How can I save our marriage?
Q. What do you think how common mid-life crises is? Are there many marriage brakes down from the husband's mid-life crises? And what do you think, what are the sign's of that? I see several of my friends, that their husband is leaving with a young ...
A. 5 January 2012: I think you should encourage him to see his doctor to make sure there isn't some underlying physical reason for all this first. Once you have ruled out physical you can start discussing mental. A lot of those mid-life crisis’s are due the natural ... (read in full...)
People tell me I am a great catch but I can't seem to get into a relationship! I hate being single!
Q. I hate being single. There I said it. I would like to feel loved, and be part of a relationship, to share things with a special someone. At nearly 29 years old, I have been single for most of my adult life and it is really beginning to aff...
A. 5 January 2012: My son (now 30) met his wife (now 36) and mother of his child when she was 34. She had never been in any real romances before she met him. I know you are feeling left behind but you really aren't that old. Patience Sweetheart, it will happen for you ... (read in full...)
I just found out my partner was a prostitute
Q. Just found out that my partner was a prostitute - apparently a one off that she dreadfully regrets...I love her but am at a loss what to do now...sorry so short but I'm too upset for many details. ...
A. 5 January 2012: Really need more details I'm afraid. How long have you been together? "Partner" are you married? How long ago did this happen? Has she been tested for STD's? ... (read in full...)
Sex is like...?
Q. I really want to have sex but don't have a boyfriend. Could someone please tell me what it feels like to have sex. Like comparisons. ...
A. 5 January 2012: Sex is like snow, you never know how many inches you're going to get or how long it will last.
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Why is my supervisor behaving the way he is?
Q. So I've been working for this retail store and within the "structure" I, naturally, have a supervisor who's pretty helpful and friendly with everyone who works there. Nothing out of the norm. It isn't until last month when I started to REALL...
A. 5 January 2012: Are you both single?... (read in full...)
Sex is like...?
Q. I really want to have sex but don't have a boyfriend. Could someone please tell me what it feels like to have sex. Like comparisons. ...
A. 5 January 2012: Sex is like math: Add the bed, Subtract the clothes, Divide the legs, and pray to God you don't Multiply!... (read in full...)
I want to have a baby but it's not happening!
Q. So I'm 19 and me and my fiance live together..everything is perfect! I am beyond in love with this man.the problem is,I want to share more with him..I bet you're thinking "what more could she want?" this may sound crazy but I want to have his ...
A. 5 January 2012: You are still in school, You are living in an apartment while paying off a house? Do I smell fish?... (read in full...)
How do you talk sexy without sounding stupid?
Q. dear cupid, i've been looking for ways to spice things up with my guy. i watched a little bit of porn, but felt weird about it, soo i decided to just consult google and see what i could find out (snicker if you must...lol). one of the tips that i'...
A. 5 January 2012: @Tish, no but he did take the bag off my head to check... (read in full...)
How do you talk sexy without sounding stupid?
Q. dear cupid, i've been looking for ways to spice things up with my guy. i watched a little bit of porn, but felt weird about it, soo i decided to just consult google and see what i could find out (snicker if you must...lol). one of the tips that i'...
A. 4 January 2012: I wish I could help you but the last time I tried this my husband made an appointment for me with a Tourettes Specialist.... (read in full...)
1st time about anal sex and I'm worried about it being messy!
Q. hello all, i am going to be embarking into the world of anal sex starting in a few days and i'm really excited, but also worried! to be blunt i am worried about poo and that i will poo myself! i am also worried about the hygiene of it and any do...
A. 4 January 2012: Sounds to me like a lot of work, worry, and pain when the good Lord provided an excellent penis receptor conveniently located.... (read in full...)
I'm not treated as an adult and my family favour my brother, how do I deal with this?
Q. i have recently had my 21st birthday. before i go on i want to say that i am not a spoilt child, i have worked since i was 16 now work in the city for a large commerical firm after completing my degree. i have always struggled at home, i fought for ...
A. 4 January 2012: She may have a field day about you moving out but you won't be there to hear it if you do just that, move out. It's time to distance yourself, you are a big girl now.... (read in full...)
I'm not treated as an adult and my family favour my brother, how do I deal with this?
Q. i have recently had my 21st birthday. before i go on i want to say that i am not a spoilt child, i have worked since i was 16 now work in the city for a large commerical firm after completing my degree. i have always struggled at home, i fought for ...
A. 3 January 2012: Pack the presents away, you'll use them sooner or later. As soon as you can afford it, get your own place. This is when you should be leaving the nest. You will be surprised how your moving out will improve your relationship with your family.... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 8 November 2011: Buy him a 2012 calendar and tell him you want him to pick one very special day for you two to become one, or some such schmaltzy phraseology.... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 8 November 2011: Hey once he gets over 40 you guys will start to blend big time. How's his hair line? ... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 8 November 2011: Tell him it's either marriage or adoption and he gets to choose. You both have a sense of humor right?... (read in full...)
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