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writes:Hi and help I need your advice please. My name is Mr Birmingham, and I met Mr Poole on net 16 months ago and I have always been trouble because Mr Poole came out to his wife and accepted him for gay a couple of years before she died, 22 months ago, but before she died he met Mr Germany on line too before she died, he is also gay, she knew about him and even came over for a visit and she liked him - Mr Poole said?Anyway Mr Germany is madly in love with Mr Poole, and he knows he's in a relationship with me but does not care, for 16 months Mr Germany constantly bombarded Mr Poole with texts emails MSM, SKYPE, with I love you's and xxxxxxxx(kisses), and I want to see you meet you and come to England again, you say well how do you know this? Because Mr Poole has belittled me to snoop because I deeply believe there's more to there relationship than he's telling me, yes he's in Germany and were here but I have seen things, texts (not many) from Mr Poole saying love too and xxxxxxxx(kisses) in a text and in need of cuddles, am I wrong in thinking that all these replys are for the eyes of your partner only or am I being silly?Last September we wasn't going do good and he said he's going for a holiday for 2 weeks because he needs it - to see Mr Germany, he broke me apart then and I was close to ending it then, but I decided to try and make another go at it?But when he returned I had to sit down and tried to be diplomatic with him and tried for it not to be an ultimatum but I basically said if you or he can't meet up again in their country's, and I asked Mr Poole if he will ever want to go to Germany again and he said I don't think so???? What does that mean to you?Me he's fobbing me off for the time being and will fob me off when the time comes again??I have seen recently Mr Poole's in need of cuddles and xxxxxxx again, might it be just cyber talk?I think they are planning a meet again as Mr Germany has nothing to lose in splitting us up and wants it, but Mr Poole is slowing down 72 years old, I cook, I mow the lawns, always doing something for him because I like to help genuinely, but I feel like someone said to me before a caretaker, yes he does love me I know and my dog to bits, sometimes I think it's the dog that's keeping u's together????But what I can't stand because it's making me feel sick to the stumach is being shared and Mr Germany because he wants Mr Poole to himself. Am I being silly. Should I confront Mr Poole like I been thinking about and just ultimate if you are conducting a meet between you then it will be over(basically stop it before it happen), or wait for confirmation to be given?I do love him but I can't be taken for a ride. Thank you for reading. Which has all been fine and great we have moved on and all is great???? Well??? I don't know if they are, there's alot of attention for him
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (15 February 2012):
 Okay...what Tish said.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (14 February 2012):
 Mr. Poole sounds as though he's very familiar with hiding things; first from his wife, now from you. I think Mr. Germany isn't the problem. He's just a symptom of a chronic condition with which Mr. Poole is afflicted, i.e. lying, cheating and playing around behind another's back....
If Mr. Poole did not enjoy the attention he has been receiving from Mr Germany for the past 16 months, he would have put an end to their communications. As he has not, I would say you are indeed correct in deducing that you are being fobbed off.
I would take the dog (assuming it is yours), the cookbooks, the lawnmower and move on to a man who can devote his full attention to you while thwarting the amorous attentions of others. Mr. Poole is NOT the man, I am fairly confident in stating this.
Good luck!
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