My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 27 March 2009: I love happy endings! Best wishes on your new relationship, Lord knows you deserve it after all you've been through! You are going to stay with us too I hope.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 12 August 2008: Congrats on finally getting the divorce from that louse. And you are exactly right, payback is going to be a bitch for him. Karma hates assholes like him. Your trust will return and happiness is right around the corner for you. You are a lovely ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 1 July 2008: Well I certainly liked the last part of your update! Enjoy the positive attention, you definitely are deserving after the dickhead.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 2 June 2008: Sarcy, be very careful if you decide to check out his involvement with his lawyer. You don't want to be charged with stalking. However the aunts are right IF he is involved with her, and you can prove it, you'll be sitting in the catbird seat. As ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 17 April 2008: If you haven't turned your son against his father (and by your posts,you haven't)then I don't see why you would be terrified. The judge has dealt with young children before so he/she knows how to talk to them in order to understand how they really ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 8 February 2008: Sarcy,I think you need to get some counseling, I don't feel you will be able to pull out of this spiral by yourself. Do it for your son's sake.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 28 January 2008: Sarcy I know you don't want to hear this but I think the total lack of communication is the best thing right now. Your last few conversations were all ending bad and accomplishing nothing. Relax and let things cool down for awhile. He's not really ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 13 November 2007: Yeaaaa Sarcy! You go girl! You've made it pass the really rough stuff now you are on the downside of the hill! I know you are off men at the moment but don't rule out the entire sex just because of one bad apple. There is a guy out there that will ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 August 2007: Why on earth you want to live this way is beyond me. I'd kick him out and move on I really don't understand how this could possibly be better. Your sone must feel the tension as well. Are you sure about this?... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 30 May 2007: Why are you not giving him a divorce? You should. You will get full custody if you can prove his excessive drinking. But he definitely should be able to see his son and so should the grandmother. You have to force yourself not to be vindictive and ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 26 April 2007: Well Babe you gave it your best shot, but it's beating a dead horse now. It's over.You already know that ime is your friend and each day will be a bit easier. Stay busy.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 March 2007: I think you are starting to think very clearly. And I couldn't agree more about his being a loser who will ultimately regret his decisions but be that as it may, YOU need to get on with your life. You are behaving admirably. Distance yourself as ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 6 March 2007: I'm going to have to really think on this for a bit. I'll get back to you.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 28 February 2007: It's so great to hear that he's feeling somewhat excluded from your life, you must be doing something right! Also I'm glad to hear that you can see humor in some of his shenanigans, he certainly is a piece of work. Hang in there babe, I think you ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 22 February 2007: I don't think he seems very happy and I don't mean just when he's around you I mean he seems rather depressed period. You'd think he'd be acting pretty perky if he was madly in love. Maybe he and the tramp don't have the greatest relationship after ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 22 February 2007: I glanced over this entire thread and I can tell you are on the mend. You've come a long way. You might have some bad days occassionally but I think you are doing better and better. Hugs.... (read in full...)
It's so offputing when he stares at me. Is my teacher just being normal?
Q. i'm in 11th grade and at my school there is this teacher who doesn't even teach me but he acts really wierd with me. Hes like the strictest teacher in the school to everyone but me. Once he took a photo of me and started going on about how much he ...
A. 20 February 2007: You PLAN on talking to the Principal? Why on earth haven't you done so yet?... (read in full...)
It's so offputing when he stares at me. Is my teacher just being normal?
Q. i'm in 11th grade and at my school there is this teacher who doesn't even teach me but he acts really wierd with me. Hes like the strictest teacher in the school to everyone but me. Once he took a photo of me and started going on about how much he ...
A. 19 February 2007: So are you going to speak to the principal, your parents, or what? If you don't plan on doing that then I guess it's just a teenage fantasy you are having.... (read in full...)
What are a realistic set of duties in a male/female relationship? I don't want to get overbearing.
Q. I read through one other post that you get nervous when get a sense of duty towards someone but don't know exactly what you should be doing, especially in male-female relationship. I believe this is exactly what is getting on to my nerves right now ...
A. 16 February 2007: You should sit down with your girlfriend and discuss this. Find out what each of you expects from the other. Have a nice long chat and get this all settled so you don't have to worry about it anymore. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Why she is finding it hard to leave a relationship where there is no love, intimacy and no respect and lots of head games
Q. I met my Girlfirend over the internet she has been married for 7 years for the last 5 years her marriage has been dead and love has been replaced neglect and verbally abuse and other forms of abuse i would rather not say. We met 6 months ago 4 mo...
A. 16 February 2007: Yep all you can do is sit and wait. This is what you get for messing around with a married woman. It always ends up with lots of pain all around. Tell her to contact you when she's filed for divorce and has left her husband. Until that day comes (if ... (read in full...)
I am happily married, but my guy on the side drives me wild! I don't want to hurt my husband, though. Help!
Q. Im very happily married and met someone on a works night out - i have really fallen for him (have only kissed him so far but he drives me wild)i have very strong feelings for him, but love my husband and dont want to hurt anyone. Please help...
A. 16 February 2007: Knock off this nonsense and nobody gets hurt.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 16 February 2007: See! As time is slowly going by you've started to heal and the HEEL is showing his true colors. You now see him for the creep he is I know it is just a matter of time before you wouldn't take him back for a million dollars. Keep plogging, it will ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 16 February 2007: See! As time is slowly going by you've started to heal and the HEEL is showing his true colors. You now see him for the creep he is I know it is just a matter of time before you wouldn't take him back for a million dollars. Keep plogging, it will ... (read in full...)
It's so offputing when he stares at me. Is my teacher just being normal?
Q. i'm in 11th grade and at my school there is this teacher who doesn't even teach me but he acts really wierd with me. Hes like the strictest teacher in the school to everyone but me. Once he took a photo of me and started going on about how much he ...
A. 13 February 2007: If what you say is really true, sorry but some of it doesn't have the ring of truth to it, then by all means talk to your parents, school counselor, and/ principal. But if this is a school girl fantasy...well you can't really report that now can ... (read in full...)
When you are in a love relationship...what is your thoughts on how things should be?
Q. relationship between two people in love what is your definition of how things should be? i have tried to explain it's meaning to my bf and he still doesn't seem to get it. ...
A. 13 February 2007: Your only choice it to tell him to piss or get off the pot, if he doesn't leave her to be solely with you then you'll need to move on or be stuck in this situation permanently.... (read in full...)
What are my honourable options??
Q. OK, here is my problem. I need help. I was married at 18 to my high school sweetheart. She has had many serious emotional problems. She had an affair on me (with a 53 year old, and they lived in OUR house while I was gone) when we were first ...
A. 13 February 2007: I think you must be wearing blinders, she can't possible be a great mom if she spends so much time in a loony-bin. And your lawyer is full of crap that CAN get you custody of the children. Quit feeling sorry for her, she's thoroughly enjoying ... (read in full...)
I think I'm depressed but what exactly are the symptoms?
Q. How do you know when you are depressed? What are the tell tales that someone is depressed? and who can you go to, or talk to?...
A. 13 February 2007: There are no EXACT symptoms of depression. But Shandy is right, the first thing to do is see your doctor and take it from there. You'll be surprised how much better you'll feel in short order. Good luck!... (read in full...)
I have good morals and she has a boyfriend. How can I restrain myself?
Q. I am currently living in a university dormitory and live on the same floor as a very attractive girl. She and I have many things in common and share similar morals. In fact, we have almost ritually gone to dinner together every night for a while ...
A. 13 February 2007: There is nothing you can do. It is her decision whether she wants to break up with her boyfriend for you. She isn't married so all she needs to do is give the boyfriend the old heave ho. If she doesn't then you have no other option than to eat ... (read in full...)
He is just so uncaring and he lies...but I love him!
Q. I've written before about my problem, but that was couple months ago. I've tried almost everything to resolve the issues my husband and I have, but it seems that nothing is working. I desperately want to work things out with my husband, but I don't ...
A. 13 February 2007: I'm afraid it looks pretty grim for your marriage. I think you guys need to separate for awhile. He may come around once he realizes you really meant what you said, but then again he may never change and you sound absolutely miserable with the way ... (read in full...)
I'm new at all this dating stuff and have never had a boyfriend. I think my boyfriend wants more than just a kiss. Help!!!!
Q. I have got a problem with my boyfriend. He is 2 years older than me and had a few girlfriends. But I had no boyfriend before. But I don´t know how to say this to him. And I think that he wants more than just a kiss next time. What should I do in th...
A. 13 February 2007: He can jolly well be satisfied with just a kiss. What a boyfriend wants and what he gets are two different things. You can restrict it to just a kiss if that's the way you feel right now. He can take it or leave it. If you have resort to sex to keep ... (read in full...)
A question for the male aunts: What do you think about women who give BJ's and swallow on their first date?
Q. Question for guys (but all replies welcome)... What do you think of girls that give BJs and swallow on a first nite? Would you have less respect for them? Do you think they are just liberated? Would it be the kind of girl you w...
A. 13 February 2007: 4 answers: Cheap and easy No Liberated hardly, look at answer #1 Yes... (read in full...)
Is the traditional male attitude of being a protector in the family is justified anymore?
Q. Marriage no more seems to be one man's job for it to work. As i see gender roles becoming quite varied, i wonder if the traditional male attitude of being a protector in the family is justified anymore. I mean i see married women who commute ...
A. 13 February 2007: Welcome to 2007, Buddy! Now that women are in the workplace, earning half the income for a family, she darn well should be able to make decisions on how it is to be spent! Joint decision making works just great, you should try it.... (read in full...)
Are there really principled men out there?
Q. I'm a married lady; been married for nearly 10 years now. I'm mostly happy with my husband, and don't want to leave the marriage. Last year i met a great guy i had chemistry with. At the time, we were both honest about our feelings. But as i tol...
A. 13 February 2007: Of course there are men who wouldn't be the slightest interested in having an affair with you or any other married woman. Get real, sheesh.... (read in full...)
I think my husband has Erectile Dysfunction. Anyone out there had this problem or had to deal with it in their husband's?
Q. Has anyone out there got any experience of dealing with Erectile Dysfunction in their husband. Did it take a long time for the husband to admit he had a problem and what treatment did he get. I suspect my husband has got a form of ED, he can get an ...
A. 13 February 2007: I would just be matter of fact about it, if YOU aren't embarassed then he won't be. Just say "Honey you don't have to work so hard, get the doctor to give you a prescription for Viagra". It certainly isn't something to be ashamed of and Viagra works ... (read in full...)
Ready to have sex but is there a time in-between periods when pregancy is impossible??
Q. OK. So here's the thing. Me and my boyfriend are totally into each other and have been going out a while now. Anyway long story short, we're both ready to have sex and understand the consequences and stuff, and we're both virgins. We are both of ...
A. 12 February 2007: There is never a time when pregnancy is impossible. There is no "safe" time. You need to be on some sort of birth control don't rely on just a condom. You can get free birth control so look it up in the phone book under family planning. ... (read in full...)
I have resentment for the people who disciplined me in my past. Are these feeings right or am I just stubbborn?
Q. I am afriad of authorities in that i feel that they would slap me or attack me physically to discipline me when i am doing certain things that are not ethical. Like i rememeber my father slapping me in public when i was careless not to lock my bike ...
A. 12 February 2007: Find you easy to tame? I think you need to schedule an appointment with a qualified therapist immediately. You have some major issues and I'm afraid they may get you into some trouble. Pick up the phone today and make an appointment.... (read in full...)
Is it normal that fantasies fulfill me and not actually having intercourse?
Q. I have read somewhere that our subconscious mind understands only images. So does it mean if we can visualize about having an intercourse with someone so that almost similar images are created in subconscious, it is almost equal to a real one? I ...
A. 12 February 2007: Not sure about how "normal" this is but it certainly is cheaper than dinner and a movie, plus talk about safe sex!... (read in full...)
I want to have wild sex with my coworker. Should I ask her out or get it out of my mind?
Q. I think of having wild sex with a girl in my office, but i am just worried that she might find it to be bad and would get hurt if i asked her out for the same. Though i have indicators that says she is interested in me, i am not clear whether she is ...
A. 12 February 2007: Wow somebody needs a cold shower ASAP! I highly doubt that she would want you to "get all over her" on a first date. You could end up in the slammer with the way you're thinking buddy. ... (read in full...)
Shouldn't we both take turns getting up with the baby at night? Shouldn't he want to help?
Q. If two people have a baby shouldn't both parents do work. I get up in the middle of the night with my 9 month old and he never does. I woke him up the smorning to ask him to watch our son and he wouldn't... shouldn't he want to help to? ...
A. 12 February 2007: These issues should have been discussed BEFORE the baby was conceived oh well too late for that now. Do both of you work full time? If so, then yes he should take turns but if he works and you are a stay at home mom then you should do the night time ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and pregnant. do I have to be 18 to get a place of my own?
Q. I am sixteen and pregant. I was just wondering if anyone could help me with a question i had. Do I have to be 18 to rent a place of my own? ...
A. 12 February 2007: It's against the law to make a legal contract with a minor so most landlords will not lease without an adult signer. You may find one who doesn't require a lease. However I think finding your own place may be the least of your worries right now. ... (read in full...)
Did I make the right decision getting involved with this man who is separated? Any advice?
Q. Dear Cupid I have been dating a man for 9 months and have never felt this way about anyone, even my ex-husband. The problem is, when we met, this man was separated from his wife but they were still living together. He admitted recently that he ...
A. 12 February 2007: You were entirely correct, you should not see him until all this "sorting out" is done and put to rest. He may decide to go back to his wife who knows? But you need 100% from a partner so don't settle for less or you will regret it. Be strong and ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 February 2007: I think you are getting better and better at handling this difficult situation. Practice makes perfect. Stay cool tomorrow and good luck, let us know how things turn out.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 2 February 2007: Well when you are face to face and he tells you something and you KNOW he's not telling you the truth, maybe you could say "really?" in a questioning sort of way so he has to repeat his lie (which will make him very uncomfortable). After he says it ... (read in full...)
Does my boyfriend really love me? What do think?
Q. on our way home suddenly i kept silent and just don't want to speak with my boyfriend,he keeps on asking me what's wrong but i stayed silent with no reasons at all but I just don't want to speak with him. He respected my silence with no further ...
A. 2 February 2007: It was rude of you to clam up so suddenly and without any explanation to your boyfriend. If you just didn't want to talk at that time you should of told him, otherwise it just looks like some junior high school game. You owe him an apology in my ... (read in full...)
I love Dave but I'm having Steve's baby! I know I can't have them both but I can't choose! Help!
Q. hi,im in such a confused state! i will start from the begining..in 2004 i got with a lad called David who was 18 (i was 21),we were fine 4 a while until i got pregnant and he said he couldn't handle it so finished with me,subsequently i had a ...
A. 2 February 2007: Geeze Louise, talk about mixed up! You need to sit down by yourself and do some soul searching here. Sounds like neither one is right for you. When you are with one you think of the other. I don't think you truly are happy with either guy. I guess I ... (read in full...)
I'm cheating on my boyfriend with a married man. I feel guilty so should I stop?
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend of six years moved thousands of miles away a half a year ago to pursue a teaching career. In the first two years we were together, we knew we were done with dating other people and had an understanding that we'd eventual...
A. 2 February 2007: If you truely loved your boyfriend as much as you say then you wouldn't think of sleeping with anybody else. So I'm thinking that you should cut him loose so not only can he find someone who really truely loves him but also someone who has some ... (read in full...)
My sexist boyfriend thinks it's the womans job to cook & clean. He refuses to do the housework, I'm so fed up. What can I do?
Q. hi i have been with my b/f for over 2 years..he is great in some ways BUT he is a momma's boy..meaning he grew up in a household where it was "women's work" to cook, clean. The men did not do this. I definitely know this because i have seen his mom ...
A. 1 February 2007: Make a list of all the chores that need to be done routinely and split them between yourselves. Then make a list of things that are only done infrequently and split them up.... (read in full...)
My husband has been using adult dating sites and met two women... how can I trust anything else he says?
Q. Hi i have been married for 7 years but just recently found out that my husband has been on several dating sites for the last 3 years , eroticy and adultfriendfinder plus several more and has a secret email address.. there were emails from many ...
A. 1 February 2007: You can't trust him because he has destroyed it. Your only choice is to allow him to try and rebuild it and that's going to take some time. See what the counselor decides and if he is willing to what he/she advises then you can take it from there. I ... (read in full...)
His beer belly gets in the way of sex! We can't do our favourite positions anymore! What can I do?
Q. I can't enjoy sex anymore with my hubbby cause his waistline has expanded which causes his belly to get in the way of our best 'sexual positions..I tried to get him to exercise but he won't!. we are married 30 yrs.I have tried to initiate other ...
A. 1 February 2007: Pong you are too funny but also right on the mark. To the poster, you need to express your worries about his health and see if he will consider losing some weight. Fix low calorie dinners, don't buy any sweets, buy diet soda, and light beer. Once he ... (read in full...)
My husband of 25 years slept w/ a prostitute and got an STD! He doesn't want to leave me and our daughter, but I can't face staying w/ him!
Q. i have been married for 25 years, have a 5 year old daughter. my husband has come home with a sexual disease. he admitted he has been with a prostitute. i told him to leave and he said he was sorry and that he loved us both and did't want to go. i...
A. 1 February 2007: You should legally separate. Some time apart is called for here I think. Allow him to see his daughter frequently. Children are very resilient and as long as both parents behave themselves towards each other, the child will be fine. I definitely ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 1 February 2007: If it's any consolation to you, that woman will eventually bring him misery and vast unhappiness. She is without any morals or class and her true colors will sooner or later surface and he will most likely feel great regret. By that time you will ... (read in full...)
Was this period cramps?
Q. Last week I experienced something reeeaally wierd... I was asleep and I drowsily remember pain so I curled up into a ball. But the pain actually woke me up, I had to check my stomach because I honestly thought I'd been stabbed. I tried curling up ...
A. 31 January 2007: Sounds like cramps to me but if you experience this every month you should mention it to your doctor. Have you told your mom? She might have the same thing everyone is different but sometimes bad cramps will run in a family.... (read in full...)
My friend's bf will go up to three weeks w/out calling her! Does he really want to be w/ her?
Q. Something is not quite right about a friend's new boyfriend - should I say something? My friend met a guy on the Internet who then became girlfriend and boyfriend. They have been together for 5months. The problem is it can be up to three weeks ...
A. 31 January 2007: He may be married, not that into her, all kinds of things could make him behave as he does. But since it's HER boyfriend I don't think you should do or say anything unless she asks for your opinion.... (read in full...)
My ex said he still loved me. I found out he's seeing two other girls! We got in a fight, now he says he hates me!
Q. I am obsessed with my ex. I really hope someone can help me here and give me some advice. I went out with my ex b/f for almost five years. We split up in November but never really split up properly as we were still seeing each other and i thought ...
A. 31 January 2007: You have decide whether you want to put up with his nonsense or just nip it in the bud and move on with your life. If one minute he loves you and the next he hates you, I mean who can stand to live like that? I know which one I would choose. Good ... (read in full...)
I never see my best friend - she's always at this farm doing drugs and getting laid!
Q. My best friends got no respect for herself. She spends most of her time over this farm near her house. Her brother and his mates and loads of other blokes get drugged up over there. She thinks they're all so cool but they're not and i dont think its ...
A. 31 January 2007: She sounds like she really has esteem problems which the drugs will only make worse. If you get a chance have a chat with her but don't expect her to change her ways. At least you will have done what you could. Then I would make another friend.... (read in full...)
Me, his ex wife and this other woman -all want him! Am I crazy to keep dating him?
Q. I started having an affair two years ago with my husbands cousin. He was married too. It was supposed to be just friends with benefits since we were both unhappy but, then i started having feelings for him and he said he did for me too. He said ...
A. 31 January 2007: He's a player whether he's honest with you or not (I highly doubt this anyway) and yes you are crazy to stay in this situation and put up with all his nonsense. Get focused on your marriage, if you aren't happy then get out of it, just try to behave ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and this guy wants me to give him a blowjob. I agreed to this because I'm in love with him. What shall I do now?
Q. Hey, I really like this boy and he really likes me, He asked me to give him a blowjob next weekend and I said yes, he wants to do more than that and i said maybe. I love him sooo much and he said he really likes me but hes got a girlfriend. What ...
A. 31 January 2007: Don't sacrifice your good reputation to please this cheater. Stay your sweet self and save all this for the right guy at the right time. What kind of loser schedules his blowjobs anyway? Be strong and just say no.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 31 January 2007: You are doing a great job of working through this. I know how difficult it is but I think you are slowly making progress. Time is your best friend. Hang in there, Babe. Keep us posted.... (read in full...)
He never defended me, he has used things I told him in confidence, against me! What should I do about this guy?
Q. i have noticed a question on this site that i believe relates to me,well for everyone whom has judged me how about the truth. My xpartner allowed his xwife to call me the most disgusting words and never did he defend me,everything i have told him ...
A. 30 January 2007: Well since he's an EX then you just need to move on with your life and hopefully if you find someone you won't have to waste three years of it before you find out he's another jerk. You have learned something here and you'll take it with you. Don't ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 4 January 2007: When he calls, be business like, cool, not overly friendly. Maybe you could say that you are expecting an important call any minute so the phone conversation shouldn't be too long. Or that you were just heading out to meet up with some friends...you ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 3 January 2007: I'm so sorry this has happened to you. Your husband should of separated BEFORE he started seeing this homewrecker, what a cad. What you need now is a good therapist (make the husband fork over for it)and get rid of some of the bad feelings. He/she ... (read in full...)
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