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writes: on our way home suddenly i kept silent and just don't want to speak with my boyfriend,he keeps on asking me what's wrong but i stayed silent with no reasons at all but I just don't want to speak with him. He respected my silence with no further questions asked, then i thought everything was ok ,he dropped me home and he went home also, i texted him just to thank him for the ride and his reply goes this way "you're always welcome and if ever you need me just call me and i'll come running to be there for you" i called him up just to ask where he is but he told me that he is with our older guy friend having some drink and some talks and he said that he just wanted to have time to cool down his head and have to call me tomorrow for he said he hates me for not talking with him awhile ago. i may ask ,is it already such a big deal in my bf's part? Does my bf really love me? please give me some words to clear up everything, i love my boyfriend
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2007): yeah he does. im in the same situation as you... todae, i heard some guys teasing my boyfriend and another girl. but i know its nth so when we went home together, i was quiet. my head tells mi there's nothing fishy its juz some prank and tease, but my heart simply cant take it so i stayed quiet on the way home, and he kept asking mi whats wrong. in the end i told him i felt uneasy abt wad i;ve heard, and he explained that it was realy nothing. but i still kept quiet and i texted and thanked him for sending mi home too. but he said something like he thought i was angry at him. and after that i asked if he wanna come to my place and he said he had to meet his friend 10 mintues later so he cant make it. i'm sure your boyfriend loves you.. my boyfriend cheated mi 12 times before. yet he still came back. you should be feeling blessed. cherish him, at least tell him u are not feeling well next time... guys can sometimes have very wild imaginations too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2007): I THINK HE LOVS YOU HE JUST NEED TIME TO COOL DOWN JUST GIVE 1 DAY IF HE DONT CALL SOMETHING MIT BE WRONG CALL UP YOUR FRIEND THAT HE WAS HANGING OUT WITH AND ASK HIM IF YOUR BOYFRIEND WAS TALKING BOUT HIS PROBLEMS OR YOU THATS ALL I CAN TELL YOU
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2007): Yes he does, my boyfriend is like that at times, tries to be dramatic, he will get over it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2007): Yes he does, my boyfriend is like that at times, tries to be dramatic, he will get over it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2007): thank you for all those words of advice, he called me up last night and wanted me to be with his clients for a little drink and he introduces me to them, afterwards we had a confrontation about what had happened,then i admitted my mistakes and now were happy together again, what im thanking with him is that he never let the night passed without us both feeling ok again. huh! thanks
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (2 February 2007):
 Your boyfriend obviously thought something was up with you when you were quiet in the car on the way home. He asked you what was the matter and you REMAINED silent. He asked you a question, common courtesy should have made you answer him, at least to say "nothing love, I just want to be silent for a bit", but you didn't, you remained silent.
You must have had your reasons why you didn't want to speak with him. It was down right rude not to answer him when he asked you what was the matter. He would have continued to drive thinking it must have been something HE'D done to upset you (and who can blame him).
What's the big deal??? You upset him by ignoring him, THAT'S what's the big deal! Stop playing games with him like this and start acting more mature and responsible. If you don't, you won't have him for long and I wouldn't put up with such silly behaviour and I don't he will either.
Eve
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (2 February 2007):
 It was rude of you to clam up so suddenly and without any explanation to your boyfriend. If you just didn't want to talk at that time you should of told him, otherwise it just looks like some junior high school game. You owe him an apology in my opinion. As far as whether he loves you or not, nobody can answer that except him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2007): Hard to tell if he still loves you just by going on that.However if you have had no arguements etc then i dont really see a problem.He respected your wishes in keeping silent on your drive home which is what you wanted,you texted him to thank him and your reply was... "you're always welcome and if ever you need me just call me and i'll come running to be there for you" Judging by that he still loves you.Then you called him and you got he told me that he is with our older guy friend having some drink and some talks and he said that he just wanted to have time to cool down his head and have to call me tomorrow for he said he hates me for not talking with him awhile ago.To be honest with you,you had to expect this.He respected your wishes by not talking on the way home you texted him you got a cival reply then you rang him and then it was your time to respect his wishes when he said he is talking with a friend.No i dont think he is being unreasonable and neither is you.You both have to learn to respect each others wishes when it comes to things like this and you have to think about how he must of felt when you wasnt speaking to him.But straight after you wanted to speak on the phone to him.If anything i would say its not you thats having the doudts its probally him wondering if you are the one whos losing interest.
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