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*loske
writes:I am currently living in a university dormitory and live on the same floor as a very attractive girl. She and I have many things in common and share similar morals. In fact, we have almost ritually gone to dinner together every night for a while now.Now here's the problem. She is already in a long distance relationship with a guy 100 miles away. Both of us have strong morals and don't believe in cheating under any circumstances. I'm getting close to her and she is getting close to me as well. Naturally I want to continue with a relationship but I also must restrain myself. So, how should I go about this, I know she would never cheat and knowing she has a boyfriend I would never intend for her to cheat either. So what should I do about this?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (13 February 2007):
 There is nothing you can do. It is her decision whether she wants to break up with her boyfriend for you. She isn't married so all she needs to do is give the boyfriend the old heave ho. If she doesn't then you have no other option than to eat dinner together and that's it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2007): Walk away now. You two haven't got too close and no-one else has got involved so far! But, if this continues you do know yourself that things will develop and it isn't fair on all of you. Please just keep her at a distance as a friend and stop this all right now.
Take care
xx
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