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writes:Question for guys (but all replies welcome)...What do you think of girls that give BJs and swallow on a first nite?Would you have less respect for them?Do you think they are just liberated?Would it be the kind of girl you would just use for sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnonymous wrote: "Men don't call other men cheap because they slept with a girl on the first date do they? Where's the so called equality?"
I've got to say that i have no respect for a female or a MALE who sleeps with someone on a first date or has a one night stand.
I understand that i'm probably in the minority but there are no double standards with me. Sex should be about love and intimacy in my book.
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reader, maxsteel86 +, writes (13 February 2007):
 BJ on the first date? Dont know about everyone else but I think its pretty gross. Dont get me wrong, its a nice feeling, being a guy but imagine how gross it must be for the lady to be giving one. And then swallowing that stuff? Ewwwww!!!! Thats probably the main reason I dont ask my girlfriend for one and she's happy not to give one (too often:-P) but on the first date? I'd probably think she was whacked or pretty gross and wouldn't give her the chance to do it in the first place. And no, wouldn't want to date her again unless it was just for sex. Liberated? Thats just a lotta BS for 'able to do whatever the heck they want'.. Here's a question: if two people agree to hunt each other to death, should it be illegal? Now THAT's liberation:-D
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reader, Yos  +, writes (13 February 2007):
 I have a strict policy of no sex on a first night, so I guess I don't know.
Having said that, I don't see that swallowing has any particular meaning more than a blow job in general. I wouldn't read any particular meaning into it.
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (13 February 2007):
 1. I think they're swell, and good sports.
2. No. Would you have less respect for yourself if you let her? No double standards, right?
3. Just liberated. . . maybe. Enjoyed giving head . . . most definitely.
4. Oh yeah. But be careful, horny girls fall in love too.
Addendum 5. It would depend on a number of other factors, such as: whether she had a good sense of humor; she liked to dance; she was easy on the eyes, etc., etc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2007): Now this is a difficult one. Maybe she'd had a few drinks and was up for a laugh!If she had been sober, she may not have been so forward. I know of a few people who have got together after one night stands and have made successful relationships.Lots of men think women are cheap because they sleep with a guy too early after meeting them. Men don't call other men cheap because they slept with a girl on the first date do they? Where's the so called equality? I would meet up with her anyway,because it seems as though you're looking for an opinion, just to find out what she is really like. It's not as though you're seventeen is it? you're a thirty year old guy..you should be able to make your own decision on this one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWould it be the kind of girl you would want to date?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (13 February 2007):
 4 answers:Cheap and easyNoLiberated hardly, look at answer #1Yes
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