My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 27 March 2009: I love happy endings! Best wishes on your new relationship, Lord knows you deserve it after all you've been through! You are going to stay with us too I hope.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 12 August 2008: Congrats on finally getting the divorce from that louse. And you are exactly right, payback is going to be a bitch for him. Karma hates assholes like him. Your trust will return and happiness is right around the corner for you. You are a lovely ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 1 July 2008: Well I certainly liked the last part of your update! Enjoy the positive attention, you definitely are deserving after the dickhead.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 2 June 2008: Sarcy, be very careful if you decide to check out his involvement with his lawyer. You don't want to be charged with stalking. However the aunts are right IF he is involved with her, and you can prove it, you'll be sitting in the catbird seat. As ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 17 April 2008: If you haven't turned your son against his father (and by your posts,you haven't)then I don't see why you would be terrified. The judge has dealt with young children before so he/she knows how to talk to them in order to understand how they really ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 8 February 2008: Sarcy,I think you need to get some counseling, I don't feel you will be able to pull out of this spiral by yourself. Do it for your son's sake.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 28 January 2008: Sarcy I know you don't want to hear this but I think the total lack of communication is the best thing right now. Your last few conversations were all ending bad and accomplishing nothing. Relax and let things cool down for awhile. He's not really ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 13 November 2007: Yeaaaa Sarcy! You go girl! You've made it pass the really rough stuff now you are on the downside of the hill! I know you are off men at the moment but don't rule out the entire sex just because of one bad apple. There is a guy out there that will ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 August 2007: Why on earth you want to live this way is beyond me. I'd kick him out and move on I really don't understand how this could possibly be better. Your sone must feel the tension as well. Are you sure about this?... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 30 May 2007: Why are you not giving him a divorce? You should. You will get full custody if you can prove his excessive drinking. But he definitely should be able to see his son and so should the grandmother. You have to force yourself not to be vindictive and ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 26 April 2007: Well Babe you gave it your best shot, but it's beating a dead horse now. It's over.You already know that ime is your friend and each day will be a bit easier. Stay busy.... (read in full...)
I know this relationship will go nowhere as I am married but this gives me some happiness albeit platonic, where do I go from here?
Q. I really don't know what to do. I have been married for 17 years and have one 8 year old child. Looking back I married my wife because it seemed at the time....the right thing to do. I didn't have the feelings of love that I had in some earlier ...
A. 12 March 2007: It's interesting that you care more about this other friend's feelings more than you own wife and mother of your child.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 March 2007: I think you are starting to think very clearly. And I couldn't agree more about his being a loser who will ultimately regret his decisions but be that as it may, YOU need to get on with your life. You are behaving admirably. Distance yourself as ... (read in full...)
I have a vaginal infection and I can't tell my mom as she'd be horrified. Will it go away if I keep myself clean?
Q. Ok please would sum1 give me sum advice here. I wrote in with a few questions about my discharge and stuff. and i was told i mite hav an infection. i think i may have vaginitis! I read all the symptoms and everything and it seems so clear that i ...
A. 7 March 2007: It may turn much worse if you don't get it checked out. I don't mean to scare you but an untreated infection in your vagina could cause some serious problems for you. Talk to your Mom, she will be more understanding than you think. As far as the ... (read in full...)
Why would he be so nasty to her if it was, as she said, all about him, not someone else?
Q. I have a very close friend who has been married for 15 years to a romantic, passionate and complicated man. They have a daughter of 12 years old. He moved from Italy to be here about 10 years ago and was a high ranking executive but now runs his ...
A. 7 March 2007: If the wife had written in to us it would be another matter. Sorry if you didn't like my advice but I stand by it. Be there for your friend as a source of comfort but keep your nose out of their marriage, it's their business only.... (read in full...)
We are not having sex because of his dirty underwear, how do I resolve this??
Q. You may remember when I asked the following question here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husbands-unwashed-dirty-underwear.html Well, I've tried talking to him about the issue, but he keeps on insisting "Don't wash my undies, if they'...
A. 7 March 2007: I guess you just have to live with stinky if you don't want to split up. You can't make him do anything he doesn't want to do. End of story.... (read in full...)
Can anybody help with baby names??
Q. I need some suggestions on baby names. I`m due at the end of the month and its a boy! I want something different but not CRAZY different! HELP!...
A. 6 March 2007: Landon, Braydon, Payton, Logan, Cameron, Kirk... (read in full...)
I know this relationship will go nowhere as I am married but this gives me some happiness albeit platonic, where do I go from here?
Q. I really don't know what to do. I have been married for 17 years and have one 8 year old child. Looking back I married my wife because it seemed at the time....the right thing to do. I didn't have the feelings of love that I had in some earlier ...
A. 6 March 2007: Do not tell either one about your feelings until you have decided whether you want a divorce or not. Then sit down with your wife and discuss your problems with this marriage. She may surprise you and want out too or she may be totally devastated by ... (read in full...)
Will losing weight cause me to have noticeably excess skin? What do you all think?
Q. I'm 15 and i'm not particularly fat or anything i just have got a little bit tubbier this year like i've got abit of a belly hangin out and chubby thighs at the moment so i've decided to just try and tone up for the summer, nothing drastic i'm just ...
A. 6 March 2007: At your age your skin is very elastic, I sure wish mine was, so I think as you tone up you'll be just fine and your skin will adjust. Good luck with the exercise, I know you will feel as good as you look.... (read in full...)
He told me he loved me and was in the middle of a messy divorce. Few weeks later his WIFE calls me and asked what's going on... what do I do? I'm sick to my stomach.
Q. I met a man at an out of state conference I was speaking at. We hit it off right away and traded biz cards. I heard from him a day or two later and we found ourselves talking endlessly on the phone, emails and im's. He started calling me pet names: ...
A. 6 March 2007: There is absolutely NO FUTURE for you here. Unless you enjoy being miserable you'd better move on. You don't want to look back on a wasted life.... (read in full...)
Whenever my boyfriend gets drunk or high he holds me down and forces me to have sex with him. Last night he choked me until I was unconscious... but I love him, it's not his fault.
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years and for the first 2 years things were going great but now he hits me whenever he gets drunk or high. Sometimes he even holds me down and forces me to have sex with him. I don't want to leave him ...
A. 6 March 2007: He must have knocked the sense out of you. "What should I do?" you ask? I'm sure you know EXACTLY what you should do.... (read in full...)
I found 'Extenz' hidden in the cabinet but he lied to me about it. Why lie? What is he hiding?
Q. I've been married for thirteen years. My husband and I no longer have sex, or go out together. When we did have sex he needed Viagra, due to blood pressure problems. I found a product called "Extenz" hidden in the cabinet. Later, more came in ...
A. 6 March 2007: My question is why aren't you guys having sex and going out together? Why stay in a marriage like that?... (read in full...)
I went to a party and got wasted, now I think I might be pregnant to my best friend's boyfriend and I don't know what to do?
Q. Hey all. i am 17 years old. My best friend of like 10 years had been going out with a guy since grade 6 thats like 7 years!! 2 weeks ago we all went to a party and got involved in drugs and stuff. We got completely wasted. I dont know how but it h...
A. 6 March 2007: Go get a pregnancy test at the drug store and find out if you are indeed PG. Write back if it is a positive. If it's negative then you just have to shape up and stop the drugs and getting so wasted that you end up in the sack with just about ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 6 March 2007: I'm going to have to really think on this for a bit. I'll get back to you.... (read in full...)
He's married and we have been together for 4 years! He claims he doesn't sleep with his wife..is this true?
Q. I have been with a married man four two years and he say he has not slept with his wife at all. i just find that hard 2 believe cause we have sex like crazy i need some help....
A. 5 March 2007: Oh yeah he's got the best of two worlds. You can bet the farm that he's having sex at home just as much as he does with you. But if one of those worlds is going to crash it's yours. Save yourself and your self-respect and get out of this mess ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her I've slept with someone else since we've been apart?
Q. My ex-girl friend wants to get back together with me after spending nearly a year apart. We had had a long term relationship (over ten years) but ran into problems sexually - I have a very high sex drive where she, for a number of reasons, didn't ...
A. 2 March 2007: I wouldn't tell her and if she notices that you've improved in the sack, tell you stayed home everynight reading up on the subject ;)... (read in full...)
Still sharing a house with my ex-husband and finding it hard to cope with how he treats his new woman compared to how he treated me!
Q. My husband and I have separated but still share the family home for the time being due to financial reasons and the children. We are both seeing new people; he is seeing a very glamorous woman who seems to be the answer to his prayers sexually. We ...
A. 2 March 2007: Your separation is not going to work until you do just that, separate. Go over your finances again and see if there is anything you can cut out to free up any extra money so you can live separately. I have always felt that children are happier with ... (read in full...)
How soon will know about pregnancy?
Q. Do u think i am pregnant? I had unprotected sex with my hubby 4 days ago. How soon will know about pregnancy?...
A. 2 March 2007: You can take a test today. Go get one at the drug store. Hope the result is the one you wanted. ... (read in full...)
Im thinking of moving in with my BF but his roommate is unbearable, cant afford a place of my own, what should I do ?
Q. I am planning to move in with my boyfriend and his roommate but ever since we started talking about it the roommate has been unbearable. We've been buds before my bf knew either of us but suddenly we fight all the time. My boyfriend admitted it's ...
A. 2 March 2007: If you are "planning" to move in then you are living someplace right now. Can you stay there a bit longer until you have finances to find your own place? In the meantime things may change with the roommate as well.... (read in full...)
I finally plucked the courage to make contact with her... Now what ?
Q. Hi, my name is R and I go to College. This story is about a girl that is in one of my classes. I like this one girl named h. She is very pretty. The thing that I like the most about her is her voice. I think that she has the sweetest voice ever. She ...
A. 2 March 2007: On Monday sit next to her and say hello. Then make small talk until the professor comes in. When class is over maybe you could ask her out for coffee if you or she doesn't have class right after. If you have another class then maybe ask her to meet ... (read in full...)
We get on great and I love her, we have known each other 18 months, but I'm scared to make it more!!
Q. I am 38 and have known my friend for 18 months since I seperated from the wife. We get on well together especially when we see eachother, we tend to go out as a group, whenever I say goodbye I give her a kiss on cheek, then it progressed to a kiss ...
A. 2 March 2007: Sounds like you are falling in love. What's the problem? Enjoy yourself!... (read in full...)
Why would he be so nasty to her if it was, as she said, all about him, not someone else?
Q. I have a very close friend who has been married for 15 years to a romantic, passionate and complicated man. They have a daughter of 12 years old. He moved from Italy to be here about 10 years ago and was a high ranking executive but now runs his ...
A. 2 March 2007: Unless she asks for your involvement in their marriage I say you best mind your own beeswax. ... (read in full...)
How can I deal with the popular girls being so jealous of me?
Q. my friends say that i am very pretty and have a good figure my two best friends say all the popular girls are jealous of me because i have somthing they dont How can i deal with this ?...
A. 1 March 2007: Leave them to their pettiness, enjoy your youth. You only get one shot to be a teenager and the rest of your life to be an adult. Have fun but take care of yourself, please.... (read in full...)
Why do women prefer dark-haired men?
Q. Why do women in the UK always praise dark hair? Has it become something that women say regardless. I never hear a woman , or extremely rarely, who says she prefers blond hair on men. I have seen two surveys done in the UK in the last four ...
A. 1 March 2007: Move to the USA, we don't give a rip what color a man's hair is.... (read in full...)
I have a huge crush on him! Should I have asked him for his e-mail?
Q. hey everyone? what do u think i should have done? maybe do the next time i get the chance to? as we were in computer class we tried to get through the msn but for som it didn't work. And my crush was one of them..so later in the class as he was ...
A. 1 March 2007: If everyone else was asking for it, why shouldn't you? Next time the opportunity arises, I'd go for it. Nothing ventured...nothing gained. Good luck.... (read in full...)
It's not even strawberry blonde!
Q. Why do people in the UK often call blond men "gingers"? They don`t call blond women "gingers". They don`t call dark haired men "redheads". Whats the big beef? Just because blond hair has flecks of ginger, well thats the same with women as well. ...
A. 1 March 2007: I don't understand why this would bother you. What's the diff?... (read in full...)
Am I with the right person?
Q. I'm 14 and I'm in a relationship with someone a bit older than me. I love him very much and would be lost without him, but I can't help but feel really nervous and a bit awkward around him. I don't know what to do about it. Has anyone got any ...
A. 1 March 2007: We need more information to properly answer this one. But My rule of thumb is that if something makes me uncomfortable then it's not right for me.... (read in full...)
What can I do about my aggressiveness when I am not satisfied?
Q. If some of my instincts do not get satisfied, I get depressed and aloof from others and even start becoming aggressive towards others. I have been like this since childhood. I am 25 now. What do i do about it? ...
A. 1 March 2007: What the heck are you talking about? Satisfied instincts??????... (read in full...)
My mum doesn't like our age gap but I want to spend the rest of my life with this man!
Q. I'm in a bit of a pickle! I'm 21 and my fiance is 35. My mum dosent like it because of the age difference. What can i do or say to help her change her mind? I love him and plan on spending the rest of my life with him. I've been with him since i ...
A. 1 March 2007: I'd be more concerned about the fact that you may be getting too old for HIM. I mean a pervert that goes after thirteen years olds may lose interest in someone as mature as 21. If I had been in your mother's shoes 8 years ago this guy would have ... (read in full...)
He's gone to Iraq with the army and I forgot to get his address. How do I get in touch to write to him????
Q. hi i have a very close friend in the army and he has gone to iraq and i want to write to him but i dont know how to do this and i wanted some info or help on how to. i didnt get time to asks him when he rang and said bye for the last time before he ...
A. 1 March 2007: Can you get in touch with his parents or family? They surely would have that information for you.... (read in full...)
I had a brief affair with a married man, he's avoiding me now... how do I get him back?
Q. i am a 29 year old career woman, have known this guy for a few months, through work, ( i work in HQ level and he works in district level, and our department recently has been doing collaboration with him, which he is the developer and i am the ...
A. 1 March 2007: Just what did you really expect to happen here? You reap what you sow. Try have a little class and act like a lady in the future.... (read in full...)
I would absolutely love to have a 3-some but how do I approach the wife about it?
Q. so...i kinda wanna have a threesome but how do i ask my wife if she wants to get involved? this could be a touchy area. i think it would be so hot to be with two girls but yeah asking the wife.......
A. 1 March 2007: I think it's a dumb idea and I think your wife may be totally crushed by just knowing you would like to involve another woman in your sex life. Keep it to yourself, you can dream about it.... (read in full...)
Friday we fought, Saturday we had great make-up-sex, Tuesday I got dumped... Why?!
Q. been with my boyfriend for 3 years nearly, we went out friday and had a fight. saturday we were absolutely fine and had the best sex all day long. sunday night and monday he started to act distant and now hes ended it on tuesday, we live together ...
A. 28 February 2007: It certainly would have been nice if he had gone into more detail as to what was bothering him. "Not Happy" isn't very helpful. I'd give it a few days then meet up with him and have a calm long talk. Sometimes a relationship needs some breathing ... (read in full...)
Is these advice sites for real?
Q. NEED ASSURANCE FROM AGONY AUNTS.. I came across some material that said that some of the information or questions that are posted on sites like this (dearcupid.org) are made up so as to make them popular. Also the information displayed is not...
A. 28 February 2007: Believe me, some of the questions we get here are so bizare they HAVE to be true! Truth is stranger than fiction.... (read in full...)
Found my wife kissing her best friend! It bothers me, should I discuss it or ignore it!?
Q. Found my wife kissing her best friend,did'nt overreact but feel quite insecure,married for 23 yrs although I suspected that she might have done this before or gone further.Love my wife and kids,what should I do,discuss it or ignore it.It was put ...
A. 28 February 2007: She has no business kissing anybody else but you. You should definitely sit down and discuss this with her. Be sure you let her know just how you feel, this is absolutely unacceptable behavior. Good luck!... (read in full...)
My husband cheated and we spent 18 months building bridges, but then I find her number in his wallet!!
Q. I am so lost. My husband of nearly 20yrs had an affair for almost a year. He ended it when I found out and we have been building bridges for the past 18 months. Obviously the trust is very shakey thus the reason why I sometimes check his wallet. ...
A. 28 February 2007: Fool me once...shame on you. Fool me twice...shame on me. If you can live without trust then by all means stay but be prepared for the worst. The only reason he stopped the affair was because you found out, that says it all in my opinion.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 28 February 2007: It's so great to hear that he's feeling somewhat excluded from your life, you must be doing something right! Also I'm glad to hear that you can see humor in some of his shenanigans, he certainly is a piece of work. Hang in there babe, I think you ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to answer my calls?
Q. How do I get him to answer my calls? We had a misunderstanding and he won't talk to me. And I love him. ...
A. 23 February 2007: Send him a "I'm sorry" card or note and wait for him to get in contact with you.... (read in full...)
Is Mom's answer to my question, right or is she just keeping my hopes up?
Q. A while ago I asked my mum "how do you know if you have found the right person?" (in other words someone you have fallen in love with and want to spend the rest of your life with them) and she said you just know it's right. Is she right or is she j...
A. 23 February 2007: Mother knows best! When you finally meet the right person, you feel like you are walking on air, food tastes better, flowers smell sweeter, colors are brighter, music sounds more vibrant, it's the bomb, man. You have the greatest experience ahead of ... (read in full...)
He was still texting females after I asked him not to! Do I forgive him?
Q. My boyfriend and i had a long distance relationship while he was at uni which was a bit of a disaster because he couldnt stay faithful to me. He finished uni in June, so we decided to give it a go now he's at home. While he was at uni there were ...
A. 23 February 2007: I think you will be having to forgive him over and over again if you stay in this relationship. If he screwed up on this second go at it then why would you want to try again? I suggest that you move on and find the guy who will give you the respect ... (read in full...)
I feel worthless, useless, unattractive and resentful, what can I do to change all this?
Q. married 23 years, husband had an affair a few years ago, I cannot get over it, he never wants sex, I cannot initiate it, I am angry and lonely all the time. Each time I say it's over he uses all sorts of tricks to make me stay, money, children...
A. 23 February 2007: I think you need to find a counselor with whom you can work. They may be able to prescribe meds for your depression along with the therapy. There is no magic wand to wave over yourself, you need to have some goals set and strive towards them. Your ... (read in full...)
Please help me break out of this cycle!
Q. I try too hard to get something. And generally manage to get it leading in to a blotted ego. But when i get what i want, i find that it didn't give me the kind of pleasure or joy, i thought i would initially and i go in to depression. Please help me ...
A. 23 February 2007: Sometimes the anticipation and the working for something is better than the having. It's just part of life. There can be a letdown once you have achieved something you thought would make you happy. You just need to do a little more soul searching to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated on me and said he was sorry, it's me he loves, so why is he still texting this girl?
Q. hi i am 19yrs old i have been with my partner for 4yrs and we have a 2yr old son together i love him very much he has cheated on me once before but he cheated on me again just last week i have decided to give him another chance but the girl he ...
A. 23 February 2007: There is nothing wrong with you (well maybe you're too forgiving)HE'S the one with the problem. He is a cheater. He will do this to you over and over again. Let him see his son, let him pay you child support, but unless you are willing to put up ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 22 February 2007: I don't think he seems very happy and I don't mean just when he's around you I mean he seems rather depressed period. You'd think he'd be acting pretty perky if he was madly in love. Maybe he and the tramp don't have the greatest relationship after ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 22 February 2007: I glanced over this entire thread and I can tell you are on the mend. You've come a long way. You might have some bad days occassionally but I think you are doing better and better. Hugs.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 16 February 2007: See! As time is slowly going by you've started to heal and the HEEL is showing his true colors. You now see him for the creep he is I know it is just a matter of time before you wouldn't take him back for a million dollars. Keep plogging, it will ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 16 February 2007: See! As time is slowly going by you've started to heal and the HEEL is showing his true colors. You now see him for the creep he is I know it is just a matter of time before you wouldn't take him back for a million dollars. Keep plogging, it will ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 February 2007: I think you are getting better and better at handling this difficult situation. Practice makes perfect. Stay cool tomorrow and good luck, let us know how things turn out.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 2 February 2007: Well when you are face to face and he tells you something and you KNOW he's not telling you the truth, maybe you could say "really?" in a questioning sort of way so he has to repeat his lie (which will make him very uncomfortable). After he says it ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 1 February 2007: If it's any consolation to you, that woman will eventually bring him misery and vast unhappiness. She is without any morals or class and her true colors will sooner or later surface and he will most likely feel great regret. By that time you will ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 31 January 2007: You are doing a great job of working through this. I know how difficult it is but I think you are slowly making progress. Time is your best friend. Hang in there, Babe. Keep us posted.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 4 January 2007: When he calls, be business like, cool, not overly friendly. Maybe you could say that you are expecting an important call any minute so the phone conversation shouldn't be too long. Or that you were just heading out to meet up with some friends...you ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 3 January 2007: I'm so sorry this has happened to you. Your husband should of separated BEFORE he started seeing this homewrecker, what a cad. What you need now is a good therapist (make the husband fork over for it)and get rid of some of the bad feelings. He/she ... (read in full...)
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