My husband insults me and seems to use me for sex! I found over 50 texts to another woman on his phone. What do I do?
Q. hi i need your help i have been marred for 3 years my husband never kisses me he says its because i smoked ,so i gave up.he allways pulls me down about what i wear i was 14 stone now im 9,and he still pulls me down.he says we will not go out on our ...
A. 14 January 2008: He needs to move out immediately. You mustn't live in the same house. Go ahead with the divorce. That is the only way you will find the peace of mind you so desperately seek. You are a very lovely person, friends won't be a problem. Good luck honey, ... (read in full...)
My husband insults me and seems to use me for sex! I found over 50 texts to another woman on his phone. What do I do?
Q. hi i need your help i have been marred for 3 years my husband never kisses me he says its because i smoked ,so i gave up.he allways pulls me down about what i wear i was 14 stone now im 9,and he still pulls me down.he says we will not go out on our ...
A. 25 April 2007: I know it was hard to do but I think a divorce is probably for the best looking at his track record.I wish I could be there when he gets the letter and see the look on his face. You will patting yourself on the back in the near futre, I'm sure.... (read in full...)
I get a thrill from cheating on my husband, but feel guilty afterwards! What do you think?
Q. i am happily married woman...yet i cheat on my husband...i always feel bad afterwards...but i get a kind of high thinking about it and doing it..till its over..what do you think?...
A. 20 April 2007: SuzieQ, why would you risk devastating your husband for a couple of tingles?... (read in full...)
I get a thrill from cheating on my husband, but feel guilty afterwards! What do you think?
Q. i am happily married woman...yet i cheat on my husband...i always feel bad afterwards...but i get a kind of high thinking about it and doing it..till its over..what do you think?...
A. 20 April 2007: One becomes monogamous when one truly loves another. Some people don't love or are incapable of truely loving another and that's when you get the "cheaters" in a marriage. I currently am in a 32 year old marriage with a lovely man and we still find ... (read in full...)
I asked my friend out, but he rejected me and now he doesn't talk to me anymore.
Q. I asked out this boy, his mate told me to. But he said no and now i think our friendship is ruined, he's blocked me on msn and doesnt ever look at me anymore. I've really messed up and now i need help fixing it....
A. 20 April 2007: Nothing you can do, just ignore him back, he's decided he doesn't want anything to do with you. Leave the ball in his court and move on.... (read in full...)
She's had sex before we met, so I feel like cheating on her to make things even!
Q. I keep getting the urge to cheat to even things up for my girlfriend and I. She had sex before she met me. I know this feeling is wrong. I want to stop having this feeling. I just want to accept that whats in the past happened. What do I do?...
A. 20 April 2007: I agree with the rabbit. Your only choice is to date virgins or women who can keep their mouths shut about their sexual history. Happy hunting.... (read in full...)
We are very happy together but he leers at other women when I'm with him!
Q. My partner lears and smiles at other attractive women in my presence My partner and I are generally very happy together and I really couldnt ask for a more loving, caring and supportive man - he is a real brick in times of hardship - he is...
A. 20 April 2007: It is just common courtesy that you are asking for I can't understand why he doesn't see that he is being rude and disrespectful. He also should know that many women do not like to be leered at so he is being discourteous to them as well as ... (read in full...)
I had a drunken one-night-stand and the boy is spreading horrible things about me around school!
Q. What have i done! I feel like im at school getting bullied.. I had a one night stand a few days ago.. and now the boy i done it with is saying things that happened that i dont even no about because i was drunk.. its really getting to me because ev...
A. 20 April 2007: Consider it a lesson learned and put it behind you. Hold your head up and act like the class act that you really are. Never stoup to that behavior again and your good reputation will return. Good luck, honey.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend sometimes covers my head when we have sex. Why does he do this?
Q. Sometimes when my bf and I have sex, he throws a blanket over my head (this is usually in the doggy-style position) Is it that he wants to fantize about someone else and not me? (porn was on.....and one time he had a torn pic from porn mag) When I ...
A. 20 April 2007: I definitely think you need to sit down and discuss this with him. He needs to know that this bedroom behavior is distressing to you. He will knock it off if he cares for you and wants to please you. Good luck.... (read in full...)
We are very happy together but he leers at other women when I'm with him!
Q. My partner lears and smiles at other attractive women in my presence My partner and I are generally very happy together and I really couldnt ask for a more loving, caring and supportive man - he is a real brick in times of hardship - he is...
A. 19 April 2007: You need to discuss this with HIM. my bad... (read in full...)
How do I get a boy to love me back?
Q. how do i get a boy to love me back...
A. 19 April 2007: You know you can't MAKE someone love you (in spite of the song). There are no magic wands or potions. Just be friendly and let nature take it's course.... (read in full...)
We are very happy together but he leers at other women when I'm with him!
Q. My partner lears and smiles at other attractive women in my presence My partner and I are generally very happy together and I really couldnt ask for a more loving, caring and supportive man - he is a real brick in times of hardship - he is...
A. 19 April 2007: You need to discuss this with you. It is a definite form of disrespect. He's a big boy, he CAN refrain from doing this whenever he's with you. He might end up with a black eye if he's so obvious about his ogling. I hope he shapes up especially since ... (read in full...)
Dating one guy but this other guy gives me butterflies in my stomach! What should I do?
Q. well you see i have a boyfriend. well i call him a boyfriend. we are 14.. young and we have been together for 3 weeks but there is this one boy that i really like and every time i see him i get these butterflies in my stomach. i get like a weird ...
A. 19 April 2007: Good grief why can't you kids just enjoy your youth, freedom, and lovely teenage years? 3 weeks hardly makes for a relationship, don't tie yourself down. Enjoy those single years when you can flirt and hang out with whomever you choose. There's the ... (read in full...)
Should I talk to my ex about getting back together, or just move on and go for my guy friend?
Q. ok. i am very confused. i like two guys, one is my best guy friend and the other is my ex-bf. all of my friends hate my ex and say i should move on to my guy friend, but i don't really want to. one of my friends think i make a really good couple ...
A. 19 April 2007: Just remember why he became your EX in the first place before you start up with him again.... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend, I broke them up once before, but I keep help keep falling for him!!
Q. Am i wasting my time? I really like a boy, but he has a girlfriend. A little while ago i broke them up without meaning to! They got back together and then i slept with one of his close mates. i am really falling for this other boy who i like, and ...
A. 19 April 2007: Yea you are wasting your time. Stop sleeping with guys that you haven't feelings for and keep you eyes on the single guys.... (read in full...)
I dont know what to do, to 'not' make him grumpy or whats causing it??
Q. Hey, well i have a difficult problem and i have tried so many ways of solving it but nothing seems to work. Well my boyfriend always has the ump for no reason, he is always grumpy and never hardly talks and if he does its always being rude (non-sex...
A. 19 April 2007: Why exactly would you even want to stay in this relationship? What's in it for you? I'd get a new boyfriend if I were you.... (read in full...)
My ex bf wants to be friends but it hurts me to see him with other women! Should I or shouldn't I?
Q. I split up with my ex 3 and half years ago after a terrible time and I ended up taking anti-depressants and feeling dreadful. He has had other relationships and I have been with someone for 3 years. We work together and he has recently wanted to be ...
A. 19 April 2007: I think for your own well-being you should wait on the friendship. You need to distance yourself for awhile so you can concentrate on your 3yr relationship. Sometimes absence doesn't make the heart grow fonder, it allows healing.... (read in full...)
We agreed to go ahead with the 3some, but every time it crops up my wife finds a reason not to go ahead!!
Q. Alright, so I read some other similar questions but not exactly the same. My wife and I are both legitimately intrested in a threesome, and (she being bisexual) we are agreed it should obviously be a woman. The problem is everytime I find someone ...
A. 19 April 2007: Since you don't really care if it does or doesn't happen, then let it go. If your wife is really interested she'll find the third person. Personally I think threesomes are stupid.... (read in full...)
I get a thrill from cheating on my husband, but feel guilty afterwards! What do you think?
Q. i am happily married woman...yet i cheat on my husband...i always feel bad afterwards...but i get a kind of high thinking about it and doing it..till its over..what do you think?...
A. 19 April 2007: Just had a thought, maybe your husband would like to sleep around too, why not ask him? I assume that YOU'D have no problem with that, or would you?... (read in full...)
Ladies, how do you tell your wife your biggest fantasy is to sleep with hot, young 18 years old females?
Q. sexual fantasy / fantasies / fetish My wife has asked me before what kind of fetishes or fantasies I had. My real answer is hot young 18 year old girls. Would a wife really want to know the truth of a fetish or fantasy that has nothing to do wi...
A. 18 April 2007: Oh buddy you'll be in a world of hurt if you spill the beans. Lock those lips and throw away the key.... (read in full...)
I get a thrill from cheating on my husband, but feel guilty afterwards! What do you think?
Q. i am happily married woman...yet i cheat on my husband...i always feel bad afterwards...but i get a kind of high thinking about it and doing it..till its over..what do you think?...
A. 18 April 2007: I think you need a hobby...ever try knitting?... (read in full...)
My husband insults me and seems to use me for sex! I found over 50 texts to another woman on his phone. What do I do?
Q. hi i need your help i have been marred for 3 years my husband never kisses me he says its because i smoked ,so i gave up.he allways pulls me down about what i wear i was 14 stone now im 9,and he still pulls me down.he says we will not go out on our ...
A. 18 April 2007: Your husband is treating you in this horrible way because you've been allowing him to. Tell him in no uncertain terms that his treatment of you is unacceptable and that the phone calls and text messages to another woman must stop. If he doesn't ... (read in full...)
I only like much older men, guys my age just don't do it for me. Has anyone else felt this way?
Q. Recently, I have realised that I only like much older men than me, I have dated guys my age but it just doesn't do it for me. I'm not talking a couple of years older either, I mean men in their 30s and 40s. Now I have never had a relationship with ...
A. 16 April 2007: How's your relationship with your father? Sometimes young girls get infatuated with older men because they have no or a poor relationship with their fathers. They are look for a substitute. Boys your age do mature slower than girls but they finally ... (read in full...)
My husband is a drunk! I dread coming home and I cant bare him touching me, Do I stay and get him help or leave ?
Q. my husband has a drink problem, we have been together for 8 years and married for 4, at first i never noticed how much he was drinking. my husband is a jekel amd hyde, when he is sober its like we have jsut met, he is kind funny and great to be ...
A. 16 April 2007: I agree with the Doc, you need to get away from the guy. That is the best way to help him. Don't let him back into your life until he has sobered up and stayed sober. Sometimes people have to hit rock bottom before they realize they have a big ... (read in full...)
I've just started using tampons and I'm 18, how do I know if my Hymen is still intact ?
Q. I'm 18, and have only just started using tampons, I'm not active in sports and stuff and i want to know how do i know if my hymen is still intact? I have fingered myself and have been fingered by my boyfriend and have not felt like anything has ...
A. 16 April 2007: You can't tell without a pelvic exam, schedule an appointment with your doctor if it means that much to you. Otherwise you'll find out the first time you have sexual intercourse.... (read in full...)
His mum really doesnt like me, I want to prove to her that Im not bad and want her to like me, but how ?
Q. my boyfriend mother doesnt like me for many reasons and i know one would be that me and my boyfriend have gotten into situations that had to stress out our parents and i know that can be resonable cuz if i were her i probably would think im a ...
A. 16 April 2007: So prove it to her, don't get into any more bad situations that would cast an unfavorable light on you. Behave yourself like a lady. Keep up with your schooling. Eventually she will see you in a new way. Time is on your side, you can wait her out. ... (read in full...)
Im 12, but I think im gay, I like girls but not to date, am I normal ?
Q. I'm 12 and my problem is that I think I'm gay but i also like girls... When all the other boys at my school talk about girls, I'm not interested. I am also attracted to other boys. Is what I'm feeling normal? Is there any way I can change? I know ...
A. 13 April 2007: Whoa buddy, relax. What you are feeling is TOTALLY normal. You've gotten yourself all worked up over nothing. Everyone goes through all this as they approach their teenage years. Try not to stress over all this. ... (read in full...)
He doesnt want anything serious as I'm a single parent, but doesnt mind friends with benefits! but then he said maybe I will like him enough to stay around!? Im confused ?
Q. hi i am a single mom who has been talkin with this guy for a week now and it seems like we are connecting to me. When he found out i had a kid he doesnt want to date me cause of what his ex had done to him. He says he will be my friend with benifits ...
A. 13 April 2007: What he wants is sex and that's it. If you don't value yourself then go for it but if you hold yourself up to higher standards then just be friends but nix on the benefits part. ... (read in full...)
Am I too young to be thinking about marrying this woman someday?
Q. I have only been with my girlfriend for 10 months... and we are young. I have never met someone like her... as I am not your ordinary run-of-the-mill person.... in otherwords, I'm a little quirky. I've had my past relationships... but this one is ...
A. 12 April 2007: What's the rush? Thinking about marriage is just fine but don't hurry into it. Just relax and enjoy each other, there is plenty of time.... (read in full...)
Have relationship problems and am doubting myself or am I really that unlovable?
Q. I am late 40's, female, blonde, healthy, and attractive. I really do think and know that I am a nice person. I treat others with kindeness, respect but I do go 'off' when people are rude and selfish to others and myself. I have no qualms about ...
A. 12 April 2007: I totally agree with Roy. You weren't the problem, they were. You sound like a well-rounded lady that a REAL man can love and respect. He's out there, you just will have to wait a little longer. Good luck and don't settle for less than the best.... (read in full...)
Is it possible for a person to carry other people with him to reach same emotional/spiritual level in life?
Q. Is it possible for a guy to take his partner(a girl) to the same heights that he may reach in his life? or viceversa? Broadly speaking, is it possible for a person to carry other people with him to reach same emotional/spiritual level in life?...
A. 12 April 2007: Since everyone has a free will I think each person can only reach any level of spiritual or emotional level on their own. Another person can inspire another to follow but cannot carry that person.... (read in full...)
Five years with this married man and he promises to leave his wife! But he hasn't yet-should I just bail?
Q. I have been seeing a married man for 5 and a half years, he has promised from the beginning to leave his wife but has not delivered. I have made this man my entire life and don't know how to contemplate a life with him not in it. I know everybod...
A. 12 April 2007: Believe the half that says it's never going to happen because it won't. You can keep on being the sloppy seconds or you can pull yourself up by your boot straps and get on with your life. If you stay in this one-side relationship I can guarentee ... (read in full...)
Sister has slept with my husband, in the past. Should I allow them to work together alone?
Q. ive been married to my husband for 14yrs. im 34 yrs old i have 3 children. my husband and sister have slept together in the past and i think it might of been more than once. ive never really forgave them for that. i own a store and my sister needs a ...
A. 12 April 2007: I'd tell her get a job somewhere else, what they did to you is absolutely horrible. You don't owe her a thing, she's damn lucky you're speaking to her. I wouldn't leave them alone for a second no matter what either one says. ... (read in full...)
Falling in love with my sugar daddy! Do I tell him and risk losing him forever?
Q. So I came across this sugar daddy site [website blanked in case this is spam] a few months ago and out of curiosity I joined. I had a good laugh at it at first, but then I thought ... since I'm single ... it may not be so bad finding a Sugar Daddy ...
A. 12 April 2007: If he isn't married, I'd tell him. If he is married I'd drop him like a hot potato.... (read in full...)
How do I get over this silly, schoolgirl crush..on a married guy?
Q. This is embarrassing and totally ridiculous. I'm 34 years old and have a stupid immature schoolgirl type crush on somebody I only get to see at most once a month at best. Even then I'm married...and so is he! There are so many other dynamics that ...
A. 12 April 2007: Crushes come and go, just wait it out. Kinda like hot flashes........ (read in full...)
How do I convince my shy wife to try a threesome?
Q. I am trying to get my wife to try a threesome. She is a little shy. How can i convince my wife to try it?...
A. 12 April 2007: She said no, keep it a fantasy or you may end up a onesome.... (read in full...)
I'm seeking anger management. Is this the right thing to do?
Q. I have an attitude problem. My baby daddy and I had a long talk yesterday. He told me that he does love me but my anger problem is what is keeping him away from me. I told him that I was willing to get professional help? Did I make the right ...
A. 12 April 2007: You absolutely did the right thing. You will get the tools you need to control the anger and feel so much better about yourself. It was a wonderful decision. Good luck to you I hope you enjoy your fresh start as a family.... (read in full...)
Started an affair with a married guy--any advice?
Q. I have just started an affair, I have known my husband for 12 years and been married for 10 years. We have 2 yound kids and I love them very much...however I feel that I am falling in love with this other man. I do not feel quilty at all. I don't ...
A. 11 April 2007: You are looking for affirmation, you won't find it here.... (read in full...)
We are from the USA and my bf thinks that we wont be able to mess around below the waist as I will be classed as a minor even though I'm 17, anyone know if this is true ?
Q. I'm 17, he's turning 18 in a month. We both want to stay virgins, but he's telling me we won't be able to mess around under the waist because I'm still a minor, and I would have to ask specifically for it every time with nothing from him. It sounds ...
A. 11 April 2007: I live in North Carolina, as far as the law is concerned, if the sex is consenual between the two of you, it is totally legal. Just keep the lines of communication open and go ahead and have fun. I admire your decision to remain virgins it's a wise ... (read in full...)
Im 16 hes 40, I cant imagine life without him so how do I get him ot marry me ?
Q. I wrote yesterday "So many boys want to date me but I reject them all for my married neighbor who is 40! I'm 16. He is married but only see his family twice a mth over weekends coz they are overseas. We have been seeing each other almost daily for ...
A. 11 April 2007: Of course you can't MAKE him marry you and why would you even what to MAKE someone marry you? If you want to settle being a second fiddle that's your choice. He doesn't sound that interested if he says you should continue on with your studies. I'd ... (read in full...)
I don't have much interest in either sexes, could I be "asexual?"
Q. I am worried that i might be asexual as i don't have much interest in either of the sexes. I used to get attracted to girls when i was younger (now i am 24), but my shyness prevented me from relating with them at an intimate level. This along with ...
A. 11 April 2007: You most likely just haven't met the right woman. In some people there is a natural state of celibacy and it certainly doesn't mean they are homosexual they just have no interest in either sex, sexually I mean. But I think it's just a matter of time ... (read in full...)
His meddling mother doesnt like me and has got another girl she thinks is more suitable to date him!!! Please help!
Q. hi i posted a question about a month ago, about my fella and the mother in law from hell showing a letter i wrote to him to everyone! well now shes become un belivable! i cant go on like this! my fellas coming home in a few weeks and we have agre...
A. 11 April 2007: First of all she is not your mother-in-law...yet. Secondly don't put his mother down in front of him. Just behave like you always have, that is what attracted him in the first place. If his mother tries to push the other girl on him he'll make his ... (read in full...)
I've always loved him, hes never interested, but now I think Im falling for his twin brother!!
Q. I've liked this guy for 2 1/2 years. I never doubted i loved him, but he ignores me. We went out last year, but over the summer, he said it would be better if we waited untill high school, next year. I believed him, but now he's going out with ...
A. 11 April 2007: He probably is avoiding you. I don't see why you think that is being immature, it just means he's not interested in you. If you like his twin then fine, see if he's interested back, but if it's only because he looks like his brother then you should ... (read in full...)
Its my ex's fault that I got run down by my gf, I want to get my ex for GBH, but they will see it as my GF's fault!!?
Q. i typed a question about being ran down by my gf. i have a cousin who looks just like me this is what i thogut it was you know, mistaken identity. but it turned out her freind told her that she saw me leave a woman's house, this is where it gets ...
A. 11 April 2007: I've read this posting over and over again and can't understand what you are asking.... (read in full...)
My partner is feeling guilty about leaving her husband and kids to be with me. What do I do?
Q. I have lived with my girlfriend for a year now after courting her for a while before. I had seperated from my now ex-wife and she had seperated from her husband. My partner had always done everything in the house for her husband and her two sons 18 ...
A. 10 April 2007: She needs to get a backbone and tell the leeches to start taking care of themselves. She's either playing you or she is one mixed up female. I'd set her down and discuss how all this nonsense can be stoppped. If she isn't willing then I would walk ... (read in full...)
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