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writes: I read through one other post that you get nervous when get a sense of duty towards someone but don't know exactly what you should be doing, especially in male-female relationship. I believe this is exactly what is getting on to my nerves right now as i am to be getting engaged some time. I am a guy (25 yrs) and wish to know what would a realistic set of duties i can expect so as to prevent myself from becoming overbearing about the whole thing.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (16 February 2007):
 Why does this worry you already? Is it something that is already an issue? Talk to your partner and ask what she thinks makes a good relationship. Talk about her hopes,dreams and expectations. Does she want to work, raise kids, etc. Try to get on the same page. You are not in contro though. Overbearing will not get you far so don't think you have any right to call all the shots.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (16 February 2007):
 You should sit down with your girlfriend and discuss this. Find out what each of you expects from the other. Have a nice long chat and get this all settled so you don't have to worry about it anymore. Good luck.
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reader, wvgirl +, writes (16 February 2007):
 Before you even think of proposing, you should sit down with her and discuss this. All women are different and what she wants/expects may be different from other women, and even you.
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