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My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   27 March 2009: I love happy endings! Best wishes on your new relationship, Lord knows you deserve it after all you've been through! You are going to stay with us too I hope.... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   12 August 2008: Congrats on finally getting the divorce from that louse. And you are exactly right, payback is going to be a bitch for him. Karma hates assholes like him. Your trust will return and happiness is right around the corner for you. You are a lovely ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   1 July 2008: Well I certainly liked the last part of your update! Enjoy the positive attention, you definitely are deserving after the dickhead.... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   2 June 2008: Sarcy, be very careful if you decide to check out his involvement with his lawyer. You don't want to be charged with stalking. However the aunts are right IF he is involved with her, and you can prove it, you'll be sitting in the catbird seat. As ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   17 April 2008: If you haven't turned your son against his father (and by your posts,you haven't)then I don't see why you would be terrified. The judge has dealt with young children before so he/she knows how to talk to them in order to understand how they really ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   8 February 2008: Sarcy,I think you need to get some counseling, I don't feel you will be able to pull out of this spiral by yourself. Do it for your son's sake.... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   28 January 2008: Sarcy I know you don't want to hear this but I think the total lack of communication is the best thing right now. Your last few conversations were all ending bad and accomplishing nothing. Relax and let things cool down for awhile. He's not really ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   13 November 2007: Yeaaaa Sarcy! You go girl! You've made it pass the really rough stuff now you are on the downside of the hill! I know you are off men at the moment but don't rule out the entire sex just because of one bad apple. There is a guy out there that will ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   9 August 2007: Why on earth you want to live this way is beyond me. I'd kick him out and move on I really don't understand how this could possibly be better. Your sone must feel the tension as well. Are you sure about this?... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   30 May 2007: Why are you not giving him a divorce? You should. You will get full custody if you can prove his excessive drinking. But he definitely should be able to see his son and so should the grandmother. You have to force yourself not to be vindictive and ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   26 April 2007: Well Babe you gave it your best shot, but it's beating a dead horse now. It's over.You already know that ime is your friend and each day will be a bit easier. Stay busy.... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   9 March 2007: I think you are starting to think very clearly. And I couldn't agree more about his being a loser who will ultimately regret his decisions but be that as it may, YOU need to get on with your life. You are behaving admirably. Distance yourself as ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   6 March 2007: I'm going to have to really think on this for a bit. I'll get back to you.... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   28 February 2007: It's so great to hear that he's feeling somewhat excluded from your life, you must be doing something right! Also I'm glad to hear that you can see humor in some of his shenanigans, he certainly is a piece of work. Hang in there babe, I think you ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   22 February 2007: I don't think he seems very happy and I don't mean just when he's around you I mean he seems rather depressed period. You'd think he'd be acting pretty perky if he was madly in love. Maybe he and the tramp don't have the greatest relationship after ... (read in full...)

Is it possible to become pregnant when you're on your period?

Q.   At the risk of sounding really stupid is it possible to become pregnant when you are on your period? i have always thought it was the same as when your not but my bf says it isnt. is the chance less likely? am i wrong? or is he? xxx...

A.   22 February 2007: Listen honey, everybody is different, some women can get pregnant if you just look at them the wrong way. Some women battle infertility but there is no way of being safe without using birth control. Catholics were forbidden to use birth control and ... (read in full...)

Is there any way I can get him to leave his girlfriend, he says he wants to.....

Q.   hey. well im in a bit of a situation, i met this guy a year ago, and we got together, for a few weeks then stopped contact for 6 months, then he approached me, and althou we not dating we've been seeing each other since november last year, then i ...

A.   22 February 2007: This guy sounds like a real player. If you want some who is yours exclusively then I think you'd better keep looking. Good luck.... (read in full...)

Is it possible to become pregnant when you're on your period?

Q.   At the risk of sounding really stupid is it possible to become pregnant when you are on your period? i have always thought it was the same as when your not but my bf says it isnt. is the chance less likely? am i wrong? or is he? xxx...

A.   22 February 2007: You can get pregnant ANY TIME. There is no safe time. Always be prepared and use both condom and birth control pills to be safe.... (read in full...)

I appreciate that she was honest about who she's kissed before, but now I feel jealous! What can I do?

Q.   i just wanted to know,i've just got my first gf. i've been with her for nearly 3 months now. i'm her longest relationship so far and we're both virgins. one night me and her went out for a meal and she started telling me about a few other guys she ...

A.   22 February 2007: This is not a problem, really it isn't. She isn't that much more experienced than you. Just relax and enjoy your new romance. Have fun!... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   22 February 2007: I glanced over this entire thread and I can tell you are on the mend. You've come a long way. You might have some bad days occassionally but I think you are doing better and better. Hugs.... (read in full...)

I think my wife is suffering from some sort of imbalance of late? Can anyone relate to this and give me some advice?

Q.   Ok folks heres a doozy, I am looking for women preferably who may have suffered an imbalance after pregnancy. but the story is; My wife is acting very erraticly of late, she throws things at me and the kids and she has started hitting, we are ...

A.   20 February 2007: Has been checked out by her doctor? She may have a postpartum disorder. See if you can get her to go to her doctor and get checked out. If she won't do it then see if you can get someone in her family to witness her behavior. You may have to insist ... (read in full...)

So, girls--is anal sex pleasurable for the female? Is there a lot of pain?

Q.   So, um, girls...is anal sex any fun? I am considering having anal sex with my boyfriend sometime in future, depending on whether or not he can get me drunk enough to do it. I'd like to know if the female experiences any pleasure - I've heard tha...

A.   20 February 2007: Never tried it, never will...get the hooker.... (read in full...)

My partner can't get over the fact I slept with his friend before I ever knew him.

Q.   I'm confused, my partner of 2.5 years finished our relationship. he has always been aware of the fact that I slept with one of his friends before I ever knew him. This was a long time ago and although I have tried to reassure him that this is ...

A.   20 February 2007: I agree with the aunts, you are better off without this guy. IF he's telling you the truth, and after 2.5 years he hasn't gotten over this, he never will. You deserve better.... (read in full...)

My fiancee was caught kissing and cuddling another women!!

Q.   Hi Dear, My fiancee was caught with another woman cuddling and kissing each other by my friend and her husband in a night club,she alerted me immediately and when i confronted him he denied and decided to stop communicating with me.He only called m...

A.   20 February 2007: I guess you'd better rethink this fiancee business, hadn't you?! Sounds like he's not to interested in marriage at the moment or in your relationship either. I'd move on.... (read in full...)

Does my teacher fancy me?

Q.   Hey, I need help! My teacher is a bit older than I am and I need to know if he likes me or not. He always talks to me and I usually talk to him, but if I don't he asks me why I'm not talking to him. He comes out to my locker to talk to me and alwa...

A.   20 February 2007: No he doesn't fancy you in the way you are hoping. He is a teacher who cares for all his students. You just have a typical crush and are seeing stuff that really isn't there. You are reading things into every move he makes and everyone has done the ... (read in full...)

Is it possible for your soulmate to be married to someone else?

Q.   Do you believe it is possible for your soulmate to be married to someone else? I believe mine is married to someone else (for about 10-12 years now). He has told me he loves me (and I him) but he hasn't mentioned he would divorce his wife, so of ...

A.   20 February 2007: Why you would even want this sorry sack of s**t is beyond me. I think one of the most important aspects in any relationship is mutual respect and man alive you should can't respect this cheater. Drop him like a hot potato and do something with your ... (read in full...)

It's so offputing when he stares at me. Is my teacher just being normal?

Q.   i'm in 11th grade and at my school there is this teacher who doesn't even teach me but he acts really wierd with me. Hes like the strictest teacher in the school to everyone but me. Once he took a photo of me and started going on about how much he ...

A.   20 February 2007: You PLAN on talking to the Principal? Why on earth haven't you done so yet?... (read in full...)

He only has one year to live and he wants me with him but I don't know what to do...

Q.   I am in love with a man (who is also in love with me), but we broke up because he has cancer and doesn't want me to watch him die. Now, he wants me to be there for him until he does die. We are in love, but he will not live more than another year. ...

A.   20 February 2007: I will be scary but I think you will also have a huge personal growth from it as well. You will come out on the other side a stronger and wiser person. You are so very young, most people go through this at a much older age. Your whole life is ahead ... (read in full...)

I've been with a guy 22 years older than me for 7 months but he's living with someone and I seem to be his little secret. What should I do?

Q.   Well hear goes, I am 19 years old nearly 20 and i have been with my over half now for 7 months. He is 42, i have never minded about the age difference, he also has a little boy who is 2 which i also get along with, but the thing that is really ...

A.   19 February 2007: You are not only his "little secret" you are also his bit on the side. He is playing you. Put a stop to it immediately, you are only going to be sloppy seconds with this guy. Dump the louse.... (read in full...)

I'm paying all his bills since I kicked him out! How can I get him to take them?

Q.   Hoping someone can help me! I have been with my fiance for two and half years, and for the past 2 years he has had some serious medical problems through which I stood by his side. The problem is that he has had two seperate instances where he was ...

A.   19 February 2007: Does he really have nowhere to go? If so then give him a set time to get a job and move out and mean it. Stop paying his bills immediately that may give him even more incentive. If he does have friends or family he can move in with, show him the ... (read in full...)

Together 7 years but all we do is fight and I'm ready to end it!

Q.   i am 24 years old, and i am in an almost 7 year relationship with my 21 year old boyfriend. We fight everyday about everything. We dont have sex anymore, and we sleep opposite in bed and hen we do sleep in the same bed, we are comfortable with ...

A.   19 February 2007: You can't keep beating a dead horse. Time to move on. You are miserable and if you want to find any happiness again you need to drop this baggage. Be strong, you will not regret it. Good luck.... (read in full...)

I'm 86 and very in love but she still has contact with her ex-lover...

Q.   I am 86 years of age and desperately in love with a lady of 50. She attended a college for the disabled in her youth and made a large circle of friends there who still meet regularly for a social get together. One member of this group is a male with ...

A.   19 February 2007: I agree with the aunt below, why not go with her to the next get-together? That way you can see what goes on and meet some of her friends as well. I'm sure you will be pleased to find out you have nothing to worry about. Have fun!... (read in full...)

Would it matter to a guy if my vagina area was strange?

Q.   basically, there's a guy, and its possible stuff might happen but im sorta worried. like, ive never been past first base before and im worried about my vagina area not being right? like my clits always seem really odd to me, big and sorta shrive...

A.   19 February 2007: First off I can tell by your question that you know very little about female anatomy. "Clits" I think you mean labia. Do a little research and you will find out that you are perfectly normal "down there". If you are not on any kind of birth control, ... (read in full...)

You have to be 16 to go on the pill right? Do I have to know my insurance and all that too?

Q.   i am 16 yrs. old and me and my boyfriend just recently started having sex. and we've been using condoms each and every time. but it just seems like a hassle compared to the pill or patch. i want to go on it but i know that i cant talk to my mom ...

A.   19 February 2007: You can get free birth control at your local family planning center look them up in the phone book. You do realize that the pill doesn't protect against any STD's, right? I recommend that you use both in order to be totally protected.... (read in full...)

He only has one year to live and he wants me with him but I don't know what to do...

Q.   I am in love with a man (who is also in love with me), but we broke up because he has cancer and doesn't want me to watch him die. Now, he wants me to be there for him until he does die. We are in love, but he will not live more than another year. ...

A.   19 February 2007: Ignore the anonymous poster Malyce, your answer was very comforting I am sure, heck I was impressed by your glove analogy.... (read in full...)

Are there any younger girls in the UK of the age of 20-22 who would have a relationship with an old man of 27?

Q.   Dear Cupid. I am a 27 male who has never had any sexual relationships or girlfriends, probably due to a medical problem called hypogonadism. I am not getting any younger, and I am very depressed due to my situation. I am an undergraduate ma...

A.   19 February 2007: You really worry me about this age thing. What's the deal?... (read in full...)

Are there any younger girls in the UK of the age of 20-22 who would have a relationship with an old man of 27?

Q.   Dear Cupid. I am a 27 male who has never had any sexual relationships or girlfriends, probably due to a medical problem called hypogonadism. I am not getting any younger, and I am very depressed due to my situation. I am an undergraduate ma...

A.   19 February 2007: Wowie, slow down and relax GAZZ. You are worked up over something that hasn't even HAPPENED yet! If you get busy meeting new people at your university, I'm sure you'll find someone who'll want to have a relationship with you, but what's this age ... (read in full...)

He only has one year to live and he wants me with him but I don't know what to do...

Q.   I am in love with a man (who is also in love with me), but we broke up because he has cancer and doesn't want me to watch him die. Now, he wants me to be there for him until he does die. We are in love, but he will not live more than another year. ...

A.   19 February 2007: Rent the movie "A Walk to Remember". You'll know what to do after you watch it. Good luck, honey. Keep us posted.... (read in full...)

How can I stop being scared of fat women and certain people in general?

Q.   I am scared of certain type of people, like those who are imperfect in their physiqie, especially fat women. I think they have a low self-esteem and it's a safe thing to not let them come close. Same thing about people with dark skin. I find them to ...

A.   19 February 2007: I doubt if you can handle your issues without seeking professional counseling. Your phobias are not within the realm of normal and will affect your being able to cope in society. Pick up the phone book and find some help or ask your doctor to refer ... (read in full...)

What does it mean when someone says "you bring out the worst in me?"

Q.   Please help me to understand this. What does it mean when a person says you bring out the worst in him..... he broke up with me and now he always avoids me bringing up the subject and he later told me i bring out the worst in him....he is dating ...

A.   19 February 2007: You need to stop allowing him to roll back and forth. Cut him out of you life and move on The only reason he can use emotional blackmail on you is because you allow it. When some says "you bring out the worst in me" then turn around and RUN in the ... (read in full...)

He wanted to marry me, now he says I have blown it! How can he stand by and watch me hurting like this?

Q.   me and my boyfriend had words,no real drama,he txt me saying he was going to propose on valentines day but i had blown it,i am seriously hurting as i wanted so much to love, takecare of him whatever arises till death do we part,and that stems from ...

A.   19 February 2007: Yeah the old "I WAS going to do such and such, but because of YOU, I didn't" line. It's crap and pretty lame as well. Do you have any other proof he was going to propose othe than his saying so? I doubt it. Sounds like a loser and you'll probably ... (read in full...)

He said he wished I wasn't his best friend's sister. What difference does it make?

Q.   ok, there is this guy who is my brothers best mate i really him and he has a girlfriend and on saturday we ended up kissing and he sed he wished i wasnt his best mates sister and he said he doesnt love his girlfriend.what do i do?...

A.   19 February 2007: You should just enjoy your life and if he does break up with his girlfriend then see whether there if a future for you two. Good luck.... (read in full...)

Why won't my boyfriend tell me what's really wrong and let me help him?

Q.   I'm struggling immensly with my current relationship. Feb. 15th was our 4 year anniversary. I became hurt when for the first time in our relationship, he said that Valentine's day was just another day and it meant nothing. He has also had little to ...

A.   19 February 2007: He needs to be checked out by a doctor and maybe put back on medication. Only he can do this. All you can do is be encouraging and maybe go with him if he does make an appointment. But you are right, you can't help someone who doesn't want help. ... (read in full...)

He's moving to Australia soon, why does he have to move?

Q.   ok so here goes me and my best friend have always had a spark, he's gotta girlfriend but she lives in oz and i recently told him i'm in love with him. he says he feels the same but he has to go as its all planned! i'm devastated and its killing me ...

A.   19 February 2007: He's going because he wants to go. Best find out if you are pregnant and then think long and hard about who the father might be (no offense but you probably should know this don'tcha think?) He has a right to know if it's his but don't expect him to ... (read in full...)

Why do I feel like "Billy-No-Mates?"

Q.   I am supposed to be getting married in two months time. What is the problem. Well, we have both been married before. He has been married twice before. We both had the big wedding stuff in the past and don't want it now. or i thought i didn't! He has ...

A.   19 February 2007: It's your wedding as well as his so just step up to the plate and tell him you guys need to change a few of the plans. Then make arrangements that suit both of you. I assume that he loves you very much so he won't have a problem with this. Best ... (read in full...)

Help!!!! I really don't know what to do here.

Q.   Ok i have this guy friend that i have of course fallen for. A few months back like back in november i was talking to his bestfriend about how i like his friend. Anyways he asked his friend i guess if he liked me or something all that line..........

A.   19 February 2007: The beginings of any relationship is kind of unsettling, sounds like you need to relax and go with the flow for awhile. Just be yourself, he sounds like he is very interested. Have fun and good luck!... (read in full...)

I think I might be pregnant!!!!!

Q.   I think I might be pregnant! I had sex 3 weeks ago, when I had just started my period. After I had sex my period stopped, and I panicked and went to a family planning clinic, but they said I had nothing to worry about as I was on the pill and I had ...

A.   19 February 2007: Go buy a pregnancy test at the nearest drug store and find out.... (read in full...)

I am terrified of needles and need to see a doctor but I'm terrified, please help, what should I do???

Q.   Oh god, I dont know what to do. Yesterday, I had a bad case of chills, back pain, headache, ear pain, nausea, a feeling like I was going to faint, and puss pockets in my throat. I still expeirence these symptoms today, even though I went to the ...

A.   19 February 2007: Nobody like needles but the pain you are in is much worse than that tiny prick. Be a big girl and go see the doctor, you'll be soooo glad you did.... (read in full...)

I have acted like an idiot, should I text him back and tell him I'm sorry?

Q.   Hi, I wonder if you might give me some advice as Ive acted really foolishly over a guy and feel so bad about it. In December I had a one night fling with a married friend of mine who Ive known for a long time. We both knew it was wrong and afterw...

A.   19 February 2007: I have some advice, leave him alone and move on with your life. You lost a friend, go make another, and try to find one who is not married, for crying out loud.... (read in full...)

Do you think we should split up or work this out?

Q.   the other day my boyfriend said he didn't think he was ready for a long term relationship after 2 and a half years, and ive recently found messages from another girl on his phone saying that they miss each other etc. ive suggested that we dont split ...

A.   19 February 2007: That "open relationship" deal is only a good idea and will only work if both people are in total agreement. If you guys can be okay with each other dating another person while carrying on with your own relationship then great, go for it. It would ... (read in full...)

My wife has been cheating for the last 3 years of our 10yr marriage, I dont know what to do!!!

Q.   I have been married 10 years now and have learnt that my wife has been cheating for the last 3 years. I had always been faithful to her all along and she is unable to give me any reply and just say's I don't know how I did it. I have 2 kids and ...

A.   19 February 2007: Unless she is in a vegetative state she knows exactly why she is behaving this way. She has a lot of explaining to do and she knows it, she is avoiding the discussion. Tell her to fess up and cough up all the information or you will walk. Do not put ... (read in full...)

I know I am an attractive woman so why do I still get jealous when he looks at other women?

Q.   My fiancee is one of the best men I've ever known. We love each other and take good care of one another. We are in our early 60s, both look young for our age, most people take me for 40 and that's the truth. He's an attractive man, I am a very ...

A.   19 February 2007: You may be told how attractive you are but I don't think YOU really believe it. Your self-esteem is pretty low or you wouldn't be so bothered by your boyfriend looking at other women. Remember he has chosen you to be with, looking is just that, ... (read in full...)

It's so offputing when he stares at me. Is my teacher just being normal?

Q.   i'm in 11th grade and at my school there is this teacher who doesn't even teach me but he acts really wierd with me. Hes like the strictest teacher in the school to everyone but me. Once he took a photo of me and started going on about how much he ...

A.   19 February 2007: So are you going to speak to the principal, your parents, or what? If you don't plan on doing that then I guess it's just a teenage fantasy you are having.... (read in full...)

I want to kiss this girl badly but she doesn't want to, I'm only 12 so what will I do?

Q.   Im 12 and i have already hit puberty ( it runs in the family ) and i am dating a girl but we dont really kiss or do anything but i want to kiss her so bad, but she dosnt want to and now i have started hitting on other girls what should i do? ...

A.   16 February 2007: I can relate, puberty runs in my family too! If she's not ready then she's not ready. Act like a gentleman whenever you are around her. Eventually she'll be ready but only she will know when she is.... (read in full...)

What are a realistic set of duties in a male/female relationship? I don't want to get overbearing.

Q.   I read through one other post that you get nervous when get a sense of duty towards someone but don't know exactly what you should be doing, especially in male-female relationship. I believe this is exactly what is getting on to my nerves right now ...

A.   16 February 2007: You should sit down with your girlfriend and discuss this. Find out what each of you expects from the other. Have a nice long chat and get this all settled so you don't have to worry about it anymore. Good luck.... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   16 February 2007: See! As time is slowly going by you've started to heal and the HEEL is showing his true colors. You now see him for the creep he is I know it is just a matter of time before you wouldn't take him back for a million dollars. Keep plogging, it will ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   16 February 2007: See! As time is slowly going by you've started to heal and the HEEL is showing his true colors. You now see him for the creep he is I know it is just a matter of time before you wouldn't take him back for a million dollars. Keep plogging, it will ... (read in full...)

It's so offputing when he stares at me. Is my teacher just being normal?

Q.   i'm in 11th grade and at my school there is this teacher who doesn't even teach me but he acts really wierd with me. Hes like the strictest teacher in the school to everyone but me. Once he took a photo of me and started going on about how much he ...

A.   13 February 2007: If what you say is really true, sorry but some of it doesn't have the ring of truth to it, then by all means talk to your parents, school counselor, and/ principal. But if this is a school girl fantasy...well you can't really report that now can ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   9 February 2007: I think you are getting better and better at handling this difficult situation. Practice makes perfect. Stay cool tomorrow and good luck, let us know how things turn out.... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   2 February 2007: Well when you are face to face and he tells you something and you KNOW he's not telling you the truth, maybe you could say "really?" in a questioning sort of way so he has to repeat his lie (which will make him very uncomfortable). After he says it ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   1 February 2007: If it's any consolation to you, that woman will eventually bring him misery and vast unhappiness. She is without any morals or class and her true colors will sooner or later surface and he will most likely feel great regret. By that time you will ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   31 January 2007: You are doing a great job of working through this. I know how difficult it is but I think you are slowly making progress. Time is your best friend. Hang in there, Babe. Keep us posted.... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   4 January 2007: When he calls, be business like, cool, not overly friendly. Maybe you could say that you are expecting an important call any minute so the phone conversation shouldn't be too long. Or that you were just heading out to meet up with some friends...you ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   3 January 2007: I'm so sorry this has happened to you. Your husband should of separated BEFORE he started seeing this homewrecker, what a cad. What you need now is a good therapist (make the husband fork over for it)and get rid of some of the bad feelings. He/she ... (read in full...)

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