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writes:I can't enjoy sex anymore with my hubbby cause his waistline has expanded which causes his belly to get in the way of our best 'sexual positions..I tried to get him to exercise but he won't!. we are married 30 yrs.I have tried to initiate other places in the home to have sexual relations but he can't position himself to do so.please help! I need romance and intimacy... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2007): Instead of yelling or forcing him to work out, why don't you do things together- go for a walk, join a gym, buy your own treadmill. When you cook dinner make it healthy- diet together. Even if you don't need to lose weight if you do it together it might bring you 2 closer and he will lose weight.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (1 February 2007):
 Pong you are too funny but also right on the mark. To the poster, you need to express your worries about his health and see if he will consider losing some weight. Fix low calorie dinners, don't buy any sweets, buy diet soda, and light beer. Once he drops a few pounds he will be inspired to lose more. Good luck.
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (1 February 2007):
 Tell the fat bastard to shape up or ship out!!!! LOL.
Seriously. You should impress upon him the health issues of having a "beer belly". Tell him you want him around for a long time. Carrying extra weight can shorten your life by as much as 20 years. Tell him that YOU want to get fit and join a gym, and that you want him to come along too. If you workout together, you can motivate each other, and enjoy the results together. Wink, wink.
Good luck!
p.s. - If you want to goad him a little, start calling him Dicky Doo . . . because with a big fat belly, he can't see what his dicky do. LOL.
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