My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 27 March 2009: I love happy endings! Best wishes on your new relationship, Lord knows you deserve it after all you've been through! You are going to stay with us too I hope.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 12 August 2008: Congrats on finally getting the divorce from that louse. And you are exactly right, payback is going to be a bitch for him. Karma hates assholes like him. Your trust will return and happiness is right around the corner for you. You are a lovely ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 1 July 2008: Well I certainly liked the last part of your update! Enjoy the positive attention, you definitely are deserving after the dickhead.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 2 June 2008: Sarcy, be very careful if you decide to check out his involvement with his lawyer. You don't want to be charged with stalking. However the aunts are right IF he is involved with her, and you can prove it, you'll be sitting in the catbird seat. As ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 17 April 2008: If you haven't turned your son against his father (and by your posts,you haven't)then I don't see why you would be terrified. The judge has dealt with young children before so he/she knows how to talk to them in order to understand how they really ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 8 February 2008: Sarcy,I think you need to get some counseling, I don't feel you will be able to pull out of this spiral by yourself. Do it for your son's sake.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 28 January 2008: Sarcy I know you don't want to hear this but I think the total lack of communication is the best thing right now. Your last few conversations were all ending bad and accomplishing nothing. Relax and let things cool down for awhile. He's not really ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 13 November 2007: Yeaaaa Sarcy! You go girl! You've made it pass the really rough stuff now you are on the downside of the hill! I know you are off men at the moment but don't rule out the entire sex just because of one bad apple. There is a guy out there that will ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 August 2007: Why on earth you want to live this way is beyond me. I'd kick him out and move on I really don't understand how this could possibly be better. Your sone must feel the tension as well. Are you sure about this?... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 30 May 2007: Why are you not giving him a divorce? You should. You will get full custody if you can prove his excessive drinking. But he definitely should be able to see his son and so should the grandmother. You have to force yourself not to be vindictive and ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 26 April 2007: Well Babe you gave it your best shot, but it's beating a dead horse now. It's over.You already know that ime is your friend and each day will be a bit easier. Stay busy.... (read in full...)
My partner is feeling guilty about leaving her husband and kids to be with me. What do I do?
Q. I have lived with my girlfriend for a year now after courting her for a while before. I had seperated from my now ex-wife and she had seperated from her husband. My partner had always done everything in the house for her husband and her two sons 18 ...
A. 10 April 2007: She needs to get a backbone and tell the leeches to start taking care of themselves. She's either playing you or she is one mixed up female. I'd set her down and discuss how all this nonsense can be stoppped. If she isn't willing then I would walk ... (read in full...)
Ex made me choose between him and his mate!
Q. I just started to date my ex really good friend and when he told him, my ex totally flipped and couple of days later, asked him to choose between him and me. Given 20 year friendship, he had to choose my ex. Right now we are trying to find the best ...
A. 10 April 2007: He didn't have to choose your ex over you, he didn't have to choose period. He is your EX that doesn't mean a life long commitment to his stupid demands that means it's over. You have every right to date whom ever you choose and so does your new ... (read in full...)
I am 18 and my girl friend is 14... Is this wrong?
Q. I am 18 and my girl friend is 14... Is this wrong?...
A. 10 April 2007: You are playing with fire my friend. Be very very careful or you'll be in a world of hurt. If she or her parents turn on you, wheeee doggies!... (read in full...)
Im in love with a married man, he says it could take up to 3 months to be together!! What do I do if it has'nt happend ?
Q. DearCupid, I am in love with a married man. When we met, I was married but very much separated (my ex husband moved in with another woman 2 weeks later). He told me he was married but separated too, and we dated and fell in love. He would al...
A. 10 April 2007: If there are no children in his marriage then it's rather strange that he is spending so much time with the wife he wants to divorce. Maybe his marriage isn't as over as you think. However it is never wise to rush into another commitment right after ... (read in full...)
I'm guilty of cheating and now I don't know who to choose.
Q. im guilty of two timing! ive been dating my first bf for almost 8 months now. he's serving the country so he's always busy but i love him for who he is. he's funny and lovable. but he can get kinda sticky at times. u know, like talking on the phon...
A. 10 April 2007: Well you have to choose one I guess if that's what they want, make a list of the characteristics you love about each of them. Then go with your heart. You possibly don't love them both as much as you think or you wouldn't be two-timing. If you truly ... (read in full...)
I tried to rekindle our friendship and have just made things worse.
Q. I recently posted a question asking for help because my friend was not talking to me after an argument I had with one of her friends I tried calling her today as we were meant to be meeting up all I got was her answer phone I left her a messsage ...
A. 10 April 2007: You probably did make things worse with your bad reply to her raincheck on lunch. I guess all you can do is wait for her to get in touch with you. Seems the ball is in her court right now. I hope you hear from her soon.... (read in full...)
She cheated on me and we broke up, Ive bumped into her again, We still love each other but I cant get hurt again!! What should I do ?
Q. Hi. i have a really big dilemma. I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, then she went to uni and eveythu=ing went worng. she cheated on me once, and then lied to me about ohter smaller issues, and my paranoia adn insecurity went through the roof, so ...
A. 10 April 2007: Looks like you have to decide whether you love her enough to take the risk. There is definitely the possibility that she regrets her past actions and has learned her lesson, however on the other hand she may have a character flaw and will hurt you ... (read in full...)
Is she just not telling me shes been dating someone else as we have a house to still sell ?
Q. I have been broke up for a few months now from my partner of 6 years. She gave her reasons for leaving me which I understand as it was pretty much my fault. Part of me now thinks she had someone in mind before leaving me. We have not really spoke...
A. 10 April 2007: What good will it do you if you do find out she was cheating on you? It's over and in the past now, you need to concentrate on you. You'll sell the house and move on to greener pastures. Good luck, I'm sure happiness is right around the corner for ... (read in full...)
I've been having an affair for 2yrs with my husbands friend! I'm trying to end it and do the right thing, but he keeps threatening suicide! What do I do!?
Q. I am in such a mess and I don’t know what to do anymore. Without going into loads of detail and not wanting you to condemn me straight away, I have been having an affair for the last 2 years. Thing is, my husband is lovely, we have been together ...
A. 9 April 2007: Nobody can help you, people can only assure you that you aren't alone in the bad decisions department, but only you can decide what should be done and do it. Please do not reproduce until your husband has been told the whole sordid mess, no sense ... (read in full...)
He tells me he loves me, we do things together, sexual and otherwise, but were are not a couple! Is he just using me ?
Q. I have been dating this guy for about 2 and a half years. He recently broke up with me, saying he wanted time to himself, we were to young, etc etc. Although it has been about 3-4 months since this happened and yet he still tells me he loves me, he ...
A. 9 April 2007: Cut off the sex completely and immediately. That's always a sure way to find out. Be friendly but absolutely no sex, not even kissing. I would also stay busy with your firends, go out and have some fun, meet new people. Staying busy and time are the ... (read in full...)
Yesterday I left my bf of 3 years, but not sure I did the right thing, he puts drink and his friends before me but I already miss him!
Q. yesterday i left my boyfriend of nearly 3 years and moved in with my mum with my one year old daughter.my question is did i do the right thing. i have many reasons to leave him, he is controling, i do everything for him and it just isnt enough and ...
A. 9 April 2007: It sure sounds like you did the right thing to me. I know it's scary being on your own with a small daughter, but try to relax and think about what a jerk the guy is and how badly he treated you, not to mention what a bad example he is to the baby. ... (read in full...)
My husband and I are separated, but would this sexual encounter that happend be classed as cheating ?
Q. I feel absulutely terrible. My husband and I separated two weeks ago with the chance of reconcilliation. This past weekend I invited a co-worker over to have a few drinks. When she came she brought someone a guy that we work with. Well, when she ...
A. 9 April 2007: yep that's cheating all right, but luckily you stopped yourself which shows that your moral compass finally clicked in. You feel guilty because you are guilty. If you are truly interested in making your marriage work then you'll have to be very ... (read in full...)
Can you have sex with a girl without her getting "emotional" about it?
Q. Is it possible for a girl to have sex with you without getting emotional? I really get nervous when i get close to a girl as she becomes emotional and then i just give up thinking about having sex with her in that condition. Please advice....
A. 9 April 2007: Prostitutes do not get emotional when they have sex.... (read in full...)
We've been dating 2 months and I wasnt invited to his family easter dinner! Was it because he thinks its too soon, do I have a right to be included ?
Q. I wasn't invited to my b/f Easter dinner tonight with daughters and other faily members. We have been together for 2 months, I met his younger daughter who lives with him and he invited his older daughter who lives with his ex wife to come for dinn...
A. 9 April 2007: I'd let it go, there's always next year. 2 months is just the begining of a relationship I wouldn't make an issue of this if I were you.... (read in full...)
What is generally more important: A successful, ideal career or a successful, life-long partnership?
Q. What is generally more important: a successful, ideal career or a successful, life-long partnership? Please, if you've any examples they'd be most appreciated...oh, and this is assuming it's either one or the other, and that they're not manageable ...
A. 9 April 2007: I don't see why these have to be mutually exclusive. Both are very satisfying and should be strived for, I personally wouldn't settle for less.... (read in full...)
Is 15 years to much of an age difference?
Q. Is 15 years to much of an age difference?...
A. 9 April 2007: Depends, there's a big difference between a 1yr old and a 15yr old and a 15yr old and a 30yr old. Once everyone's an adult it might not be such a big deal. However when you cross a decade and a half there can be different goals and needs that have ... (read in full...)
Is she just not telling me shes been dating someone else as we have a house to still sell ?
Q. I have been broke up for a few months now from my partner of 6 years. She gave her reasons for leaving me which I understand as it was pretty much my fault. Part of me now thinks she had someone in mind before leaving me. We have not really spoke...
A. 9 April 2007: Well I guess it's all a moot point anyway. You've broken up...you need to stop worrying about what she's up to and start getting on with your own life. It's difficult I know but really that's what you need to do at this point. Good luck.... (read in full...)
I can't be pregnant can I???
Q. Help! I'm 14, and my period is 8 days late. I haven't had sex, but masturbate regularly. I can't be pregnant, can I? What else could there be wrong?...
A. 5 April 2007: Of course you can't be pregnant. Stress can sometimes make a peroid late, and sometimes it just comes late especially in very young girls. I certainly wouldn't be worried if I were you. But please do yourself a big favor and study up on human ... (read in full...)
I have never worn underwear. How can I do this without feeling uncomfortable?
Q. please answer me asap ok. i'm a 18 years old boy and i've some sensetive problems. my problem is that I don't wear underwear and I have never wore it except when I was a child so now i feel that I want to wear but I can't because when I wear it I ...
A. 30 March 2007: I suggest you stop wearing underwear, use ear plugs, and don't look at people wearing underwear.... (read in full...)
I slept with my husbands brother!! Now I dont know whether to tell my husband ??
Q. About a year ago I cheated on my husband with his brother. A lot of what happened between us was emotional rather than physical, although we did sleep together on 2 occasions. I think I did it because I wanted the excitement and as a reflex reac...
A. 29 March 2007: What a mess. Best to keep your trap shut and hope for the best, and yes learn from your grevious mistake.... (read in full...)
He wants sex all the time...I want talking and emotional stuff! Is he using me?
Q. hi please help me i really do not know what to do. There is a man i am really in love with but I think he's using me. Every time I see him all he wants is 20 minutes of talking and the rest of the day having sex. I mean sex is great with him but ...
A. 28 March 2007: Why would you look down on a woman in your "position"? Is he married?... (read in full...)
Im seeing an older guy and all we do is have sex, plus Im not sure if I trust him!
Q. I have been seeing a guy alot older than me 4 about 2mths now, however all we do is just have sex.. he has made suggestions of going out but we haven't yet, the only thing that bothers me is he lives with his baby's mum and says he is there for ...
A. 28 March 2007: If all you do is have sex then obviously that's all he's interested in, when it comes to you that is. If you want more than that then you'd best start looking elsewhere. ... (read in full...)
Married and I was his 'first' everything! Now porn has made problems in our marriage! What should I do?
Q. I am glad i found this site and hope for some helpful advice. I cant talk to friends or family because I FEEL like an idiot! I have been married for 11 years to a man i thought and everyone else thought was terrific, till Jan of this year, when i f...
A. 27 March 2007: First off, I'm sure your feel like crap, who wouldn't? But here's some comfort, most men do not compare their wives or mothers of their children to the porn sluts they view. His other active pursuits on the Internet are cause for concern, is he ... (read in full...)
I'm15-can my 33 year old bf get into trouble with the law for kissing me?
Q. Hey! im 15 and my partner is 33. we met 2 years ago and he told me that he is in love with me.i love him as well.and dont say i dont know what love is,because i do!! Last May,my mum and dad found out their was something going on between me and him ...
A. 26 March 2007: You bet your bootie he can get in trouble. This whole cockeyed relationship started when you were only 13 and he was 31! I'd be wondering what the heck is wrong with him if I were you. I'd also be worried that he'll be dumping you pretty soon so he ... (read in full...)
I dont trust 'average' looking girls!!
Q. I found that a girl i went very close to was a liar and was cheating on me. She looked average and though i used to only trust good looking girls, i trusted her for the first time. So i made a conclusion that average looking girls are not to be ...
A. 26 March 2007: No it isn't true. You certainly are old enough to realize how flawed your logic is.... (read in full...)
Is he cheating do you think... ? Or am I being too paranoid?
Q. I need some true help! My boyfriend of almost a year has suddenly begun to change his attitude towards me. I think he is cheating and I even know with who. I ask him about it and he just says that they hang out and I shouldnt "trip" on it. Pr...
A. 22 March 2007: Heck no you are not being paranoid. He basically flaunting it in your face, my dear. Yes you need to kick him to the curb. It may hurt at first but not too far down the road you'll look back and wonder why you put up with this crappy treatment for ... (read in full...)
How do you tell your guy that you're pregnant?
Q. Well... I have a boyfriend and we have only slept together twice since we got together a month ago but at the moment I'm late and thinking I may be pregnant. I know its sounds silly worrying now before I have even done a test, but how do you tell ...
A. 22 March 2007: Go to the drug store and get a test and buy some condoms while you are at it. Make an appointment with your doctor and get some birth control. Don't have unprotected sex in the future. Babies deserve to be planned.... (read in full...)
He won't answer my calls! What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend is in Florida on college spring break, and I am home with our daughter. We got in a argument and he would not answer my phone calls, and now his phone is off. What should I do? Wait for him to call me?...
A. 15 March 2007: Well what else can you do? If his phone is turned off, you'll just have to wait for him to call. I hope you can trust him. ... (read in full...)
How can I have safe sex without condoms?
Q. I have 6 kids. And I am pregnant again. How can I have safe sex without using condoms?...
A. 12 March 2007: Gees Louise woman! Talk to your doctor and discuss what form of birth control is right for you. Since you are pregnant right now I guess a nickel between your knees is advice alittle too late.... (read in full...)
I know this relationship will go nowhere as I am married but this gives me some happiness albeit platonic, where do I go from here?
Q. I really don't know what to do. I have been married for 17 years and have one 8 year old child. Looking back I married my wife because it seemed at the time....the right thing to do. I didn't have the feelings of love that I had in some earlier ...
A. 12 March 2007: It's interesting that you care more about this other friend's feelings more than you own wife and mother of your child.... (read in full...)
We've been living together 20 years but no sex, was tempted with a friend, would it be so wrong?
Q. I have been living with my partner for over 20 years. We were married for the first 6 years. We get on very well (but there is no sexual relationship - just do not fancy him in that way!) Was almost tempted some while ago with a new friend who I am...
A. 9 March 2007: Well I guess you have to decide whether sparing his feelings is more important to you than this sexual attraction to your other friend. I mean if it is really going to cause your live-in Ex emotional pain, then I would think very hard before I act.... (read in full...)
Can you give me some tips to get over this girl once and for all?
Q. AA Scenario: i was been going out with this girl for 2 years. 6 months ago she went on holiday and had a bit of a holiday romance wiv anutha guy. i was devastated, but eventually got over it and got back together with her. in january i introd...
A. 9 March 2007: The lies and deception are very simple to understand, she's a loser with no class. You are so much better off without her. Get busy looking for that special lady who is just perfect for you. Good luck, Buddy.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 March 2007: I think you are starting to think very clearly. And I couldn't agree more about his being a loser who will ultimately regret his decisions but be that as it may, YOU need to get on with your life. You are behaving admirably. Distance yourself as ... (read in full...)
He says his feelings towards me have changed but I would marry him in a heartbeat. Should I stick around and work on things or just go ahead and pull the plug now?
Q. I moved in with my boyfriend about 5 months ago. He used to tell me that he wanted to be with just me and knew he would marry me one day. Since we moved in we have been arguing a lot more and he recently told me that he did not think he could marry ...
A. 7 March 2007: Sound like you guys should be living separately for awhile. You don't want to marry him if he doesn't love you as much as you love him. Some things are just not meant to be.... (read in full...)
I've been trying but nothing comes out... How do you masturbate???
Q. How do you masturbate? I dont know how to? I've been trying but nothin comes out an I didnt cum - is sumthing wrong? many of my friends can do it. i barely do and nothing happens! Do I have a problem? What is wrong?...
A. 7 March 2007: Are you sure you are 18-21 years old?... (read in full...)
I lost my husband in December and don't know whether to get involved with an old flame? What should I do?
Q. In December, my husband whom I love very much, passed away suddenly and unexpectedly... We lived in another state, and I've since relocated back to my home town, where I'm staying with my parents for a couple more weeks before I move into my new h...
A. 7 March 2007: Tell the married guy you'll see him AFTER his divorce. Remember that will be divorce #2. If you do end up getting the position after you tell him that (you may not) then just keep it all business or better yet keep looking for another job. You owe ... (read in full...)
My wife cheated on me and I feel the trust will never come back into our relationship... Any advice here?
Q. My wife had an affair 2 years ago. She lied that she was going to her sister's house, but went to the hotel with someone else several times. We have since tried to reconcile, and are doing marriage counseling trying to save what's left of our ...
A. 7 March 2007: Sorry this has happened. If the counseling doesn't help in the long run you may need to divorce. Once trust is broken it very hard to recover and even then there is still going to be a scar. If you divorce you may be able to be granted custody of ... (read in full...)
He gave my clothes to a hooker! I am hurt and he thinks I am crazy to feel this way...help?
Q. My longtime boyfriend of eight years has given clothing of mine to someone who I know is a hooker, drug user and possibly involved with my boyfriend. I feel totally betrayed and am emotionaly angry and hurt. My boyfriend thinks I'm crazy. Help?...
A. 7 March 2007: He had no business giving any of your stuff to anybody without your permission. Tell him to keep his hands off your stuff. If he's messing around with this woman behind your back, show him the door.... (read in full...)
I invited her and her husband over for dinner. She seems jealous of me..what is going on with her?
Q. I have a co-worker that w/time she has become my friend. A few months ago I finally met her husband. Before my gf used to invite me to her house all the time, now that her husband is off when we are off she want to meet me elsewhere. I invited her ...
A. 7 March 2007: Sounds like she has self-esteem issues. It probably isn't just you that she fears will "steal" her husband away, she probably worries about any and all females. I guess you will have to put the couple activities on the back burner until she has ... (read in full...)
He wants to be a little bit more adventurous in our sex life and has suggested a 3-some. If I don't go ahead with it I feel he will leave me. What can I do?
Q. please help, my boyfriend has recently suggested that we should experiment some more sexually and that a little bit of new things is good for a relationship. He want's me to have a 3some with him and his mate, i don't think a 3some is my thing but i ...
A. 7 March 2007: Do not do it. You can bet the next threesome will be with another female. If he walks because you refuse to do this, then so be it. Personally, I think any time people feel the need to bring a third party into their beds, their relationship isn't ... (read in full...)
I have a vaginal infection and I can't tell my mom as she'd be horrified. Will it go away if I keep myself clean?
Q. Ok please would sum1 give me sum advice here. I wrote in with a few questions about my discharge and stuff. and i was told i mite hav an infection. i think i may have vaginitis! I read all the symptoms and everything and it seems so clear that i ...
A. 7 March 2007: It may turn much worse if you don't get it checked out. I don't mean to scare you but an untreated infection in your vagina could cause some serious problems for you. Talk to your Mom, she will be more understanding than you think. As far as the ... (read in full...)
I know this relationship will go nowhere as I am married but this gives me some happiness albeit platonic, where do I go from here?
Q. I really don't know what to do. I have been married for 17 years and have one 8 year old child. Looking back I married my wife because it seemed at the time....the right thing to do. I didn't have the feelings of love that I had in some earlier ...
A. 6 March 2007: Do not tell either one about your feelings until you have decided whether you want a divorce or not. Then sit down with your wife and discuss your problems with this marriage. She may surprise you and want out too or she may be totally devastated by ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 6 March 2007: I'm going to have to really think on this for a bit. I'll get back to you.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 28 February 2007: It's so great to hear that he's feeling somewhat excluded from your life, you must be doing something right! Also I'm glad to hear that you can see humor in some of his shenanigans, he certainly is a piece of work. Hang in there babe, I think you ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 22 February 2007: I don't think he seems very happy and I don't mean just when he's around you I mean he seems rather depressed period. You'd think he'd be acting pretty perky if he was madly in love. Maybe he and the tramp don't have the greatest relationship after ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 22 February 2007: I glanced over this entire thread and I can tell you are on the mend. You've come a long way. You might have some bad days occassionally but I think you are doing better and better. Hugs.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 16 February 2007: See! As time is slowly going by you've started to heal and the HEEL is showing his true colors. You now see him for the creep he is I know it is just a matter of time before you wouldn't take him back for a million dollars. Keep plogging, it will ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 16 February 2007: See! As time is slowly going by you've started to heal and the HEEL is showing his true colors. You now see him for the creep he is I know it is just a matter of time before you wouldn't take him back for a million dollars. Keep plogging, it will ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 February 2007: I think you are getting better and better at handling this difficult situation. Practice makes perfect. Stay cool tomorrow and good luck, let us know how things turn out.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 2 February 2007: Well when you are face to face and he tells you something and you KNOW he's not telling you the truth, maybe you could say "really?" in a questioning sort of way so he has to repeat his lie (which will make him very uncomfortable). After he says it ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 1 February 2007: If it's any consolation to you, that woman will eventually bring him misery and vast unhappiness. She is without any morals or class and her true colors will sooner or later surface and he will most likely feel great regret. By that time you will ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 31 January 2007: You are doing a great job of working through this. I know how difficult it is but I think you are slowly making progress. Time is your best friend. Hang in there, Babe. Keep us posted.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 4 January 2007: When he calls, be business like, cool, not overly friendly. Maybe you could say that you are expecting an important call any minute so the phone conversation shouldn't be too long. Or that you were just heading out to meet up with some friends...you ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 3 January 2007: I'm so sorry this has happened to you. Your husband should of separated BEFORE he started seeing this homewrecker, what a cad. What you need now is a good therapist (make the husband fork over for it)and get rid of some of the bad feelings. He/she ... (read in full...)
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