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female
age
30-35,
*oveitlongtime
writes:A couple of weeks ago my best friend and I were hanging out, and she told me she wanted me to meet her Jana and her boyfriend. I was excited because my friend never really felt the need to have me meet her friends.So I met her friend Jana and her boyfriend. The whole time, I could feel her boyfriend looking at me in a way which was inappropriate but I decided not to say anything because I did not know Jana or her boyfriend and its not my business.After we hung out that day, it was not a big deal, I did not speak to him I went on with my life.Last night I went to a hookah bar where there are drinks. I was sitting with my friend Jackie, and all the sudden I see Jana's boyfriend walk over towards me. I was kinda confused because I wasn't sure if it was him.He sat down and we were smoking talking drinking, got a little cozy, asked me a couple questions about myself. I got up to dance, and I was grinding pretty hard on my girlfriends we were having a lot of fun, and my friend turns around and says to me " you know he's been staring at you all night, especially while your dancing". So again I was like whatever, I was not drunk but I had enough liquor in me to be friendly.Towards the end of the night, he asked me if my friends and I can give him a ride home. And so we gave him a ride home, and we ended up cuddling and he grabbed my boobs, and he started to put his hand in between my legs, but I pulled away because that's just wrong, he told me he'd love to lie with me all night.i am really confused because I feel bad, but then I don't because she's not my friend, and I pulled away before anything got out of hand, why did he act like this, and what do I do about the situation. Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2011): Smoking, drinking and later cuddling in a backseat can lead to problems! Learn a valuable lesson from this and be sure you know who you are giving a lift home. This will avoid all kinds of trouble!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (26 April 2011):
 Why did he act like that? Because he's attracted to you and doesn't care about his girlfriend. He thought maybe he could get laid so he was going for it.
You did the right thing pulling away and stopping him. Be proud of yourself for not letting someone who wanted to cheat on his GF with you accomplish his goal.
What should you do? Nothing else. If you try to get involved it will be your word against his, and that will end badly for you. You'll be the slut who led him on, etc. Even though it's not true, and you probably have witnesses who will confirm your story, it won't matter. Just let it go and avoid that creep in the future.
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