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writes:I was a virgin up until about 2 months ago, I lost it to a FWB. Since then, I've been pretty sex mad and we've done a lot of stuff since then, she recently told me that she doesn't always wanna have sex when we meet up and I've agreed to that, but the thing is, since I've lost my virginity, I have had a crazy sex drive and when I'm with her I cannot keep my hands off her and even the smallest things make me get erect and pre-cum with literally no effort. We're talking, led on a bed watching a movie and we aren't even super close spooning, I've just got my arm around her.What can I do to reduce my urges to want to rip her clothes off everytime I see her! I really want to be able to just spend some time with her without my need for sex controlling how I act around her.Thanks so much guys!
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reader, N91 +, writes (26 April 2011):
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Thanks for that youwish, I have started to masturbate a little more as that was the first thing that I thought could help me out here.
Taking her out is a great suggestion, I think ill offer to take her to the movies this weekend or something.
As for the her possibly liking me, I don't think that's the case, she's made quite a few comments through the time that I've known her, questioning why somebody would want a boyfriend at our age and things along those lines suggesting that she wants to remain single. However, I hope I'm wrong as I really want to take this beyond friends.
I also forgot to originally mention that she said she wanted to cool it for a while because she felt 'slaggish' just coming to my house, doing the deed (hoewever I'd always asked if she wanted to stay the night or show emotion so she knew I was bummed that she was leaving) we've since agreed to no sex for a while and she decides when we have it next, this is why I just needed this help to chill out in the meantime.
Thankyou very much for your answer! :)
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (26 April 2011):
 Just before you meet, have a quick jerk off session. That should slow you down some so you can spend time with her without the raging hormones.
Also, maybe do things in public with her. Being in a bedroom of course is going to drive you crazy. Go out to a movie! Take her out on a date!
Her telling you to slow down might actually be her way of telling you that she has feelings for you and wants to get to know you more than just getting no strings attached sex.
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