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writes:Alright, so there's this guy that obviously likes me. I mean, it's so obvious that it hurts. Unfortunately he lives 6 1/2 hours away. But, I went down and saw him this past weekend at an anime convention. I didn't get to see him on Friday, but I hung out with him like all day Saturday and most of the day Sunday.Well, on Saturday, I was thinking a lot and when I think, I have the tendency to look sad. Well, he kept telling me to stop being so sad and have fun. Well, really I was bothered because I wanted to kiss him. So, I texted him (we parted ways for a little while) and told him that's what was bothering me. So, when I asked him if he got my text later, that evening, he told me that he "couldn't allow that".Now we're both single, not seeing anybody, and as I've said, it's really obvious he likes me. He's told me that he likes me and has told me that I'm gorgeous, sexy, pretty, and that I have nice curves. He even calls me pet names like all the time. So why wouldn't he want me to kiss him?
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reader, leopard_spots +, writes (27 April 2011):
leopard_spots is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the responses, everyone. I did ask him and he said the reason is because we're not dating. Which I'm totally cool with that reason. I think it sounds gentlemanly. :P
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reader, rolfen  +, writes (27 April 2011):
 Could be anything mentioned on this page. Or something else. Or maybe he's gay. Why don't you ask him... come on! Do you have any ideas how many thousands (or millions) of miles there are between you and me? So, how should I know?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (27 April 2011):
 Did you think to ask HIM why he doesn't want to kiss you?
I am in an LDR and let me tell you even at only 2 hours apart, with lots of free time and disposable income it's killing us. I'd die to be 6 hours away from my love...
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2011): He may think you're hot but that's far different than wanting to be with you or get involved. Has he come up to see you? That's when you know he likes you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2011): He sounds really sweet but it seems like he's just not that into you or he could be seeing someone else, that lives closer. C'mon girl, I think if a guy is into you, he's kissing you, I don't care if you live halfway around the world, he's goin to appreciate you coming to see him especially if it takes 6 1/2 hrs to get to him and he will kiss you or at least give you a sign that there could be something one day down the road or something. anything?
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reader, red_squirrel  +, writes (26 April 2011):
I second dirtball - this guy's clearly resisting you due to fear. Probably is because of the distance, unless you can think of some other thing that would prevent you being together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2011): Give him time, he probably wants to be very sure and wants to go slow. This might be because he has suffered heartache in past relationships b'se of rushing things. If he kisses you one day, just know he is in a bag and treat him right if things work out for you. I am sure many men out there would do the same. Take it easy, okay!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (26 April 2011):
 Because he'll get attached and the distance is too much for him.
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