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female
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26-29,
*jb
writes:This past year has been tough. I've lost a lot of important people in my life. Back in September i met this guy and him and I were perfect for each other but he was 3 years older than me. We hung out everyday and had a lot in common. Then all of a sudden it just kinda got awkward and we quit talking. About a week later i had found out he had gone back to my best friend. I was upset. Him and I got back together in November and had a great time. then it happened again he left me for her. But yet I can't get over him and i adore him greatly. We've been talking lately but he's currently in a relationship with her. I mean i really have feelings for this guy and I would do anything for him. What should I do?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (26 April 2011):
 Well if this is how best friends treat each other I wouldnt want to be your enemy. Friends shouldnt share guys thats just wrong. You say that he was your best friends ex and that he went back to her after he was with you. This meaning that you ended up with your best friends ex first? This is a line that you shouldnt cross in a friendship.
Anyway back to your post. Its clear to see that he cannot just let your bestfriend go and he is also keeping in contact with you. He is with your best friend therefore I guess you just need to accept that he now with her and try and move on. He is only going to keep going back to her therefore this should tell you that he is not worth your pain or effort. Goodluck.
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