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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi ants how r u alll. Need some help here. Ive been seeing my boyfriend for 3months now and things are goin so well. He adores me and same goes for me. We work at the same company so during the week we see more of each other and still chat often. My problem is during the weekend i miss him alot and sometimes i get emotional when i miss him and a day goes by without us talkin or chattin. Like when i miss him all i want to do is just sit and do nothin i pretend all day to people around me and its killing me inside the way i miss him. Is this normal, can u please tell me what can i do, like being in controll when missing him and still do my chores and be fun around my friend. Pls Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankx Mamabear for you response i think may be i depend on him. But to be clear hes not cheatin is just that we leave in two different places and i see him monday to friday. The thought of not be around him i quess thats what made me miss him so much. I just wanted to know on how can i cope with missing him. I wanna take control over me i dont want to be drive by this emotion
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI meant sometimes a day can go by without us chattin i would be sad and be mad @ him. I dont want to be a jealous girlfriend. Want to be able to can still leave my normal life outside him. Pls help
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reader, MamaBear  +, writes (27 April 2011):
Where is this bf on weekends? Have you asked him what he does? Could he be involved with another person, married, engaged and not available? If so, I'd move on and find someone else. To answer your question on how to do chores, etc. and keep your life moving on weekends when missing this guy: it appears that you have read more into this than what actually is there. Somewhat cruel advice, but surely this guy cannot have that much control over a person your age. Give this all some serious thought and sort out your emotions. Are you lonely? You could have scared him off with your dependency!
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