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writes:Hi, my friend with benefits, wants to cum on my face and I've had it on my tummy but never on my face, I realize it could be some sort of power trip for guys but since we re just friends and he's not my boyfriend, is a line being crossed here?? I wouldn't even think I would let a boyfriend do this but my fwb just asked me if he could, there's nothing wrong with doing it right?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (4 May 2011):
 It's not wrong of him asking it, you are not " just friends ", friends do not have sex with each other. You are sex partners, and sex partners can surely express their desires and preferences.
If you want to accomodate them or not, it's up to you - if it turns YOU on do it, if it doesn't don't do it. You are not obliged to do any sexual act that you don't like, whether you are with your FWB, boyfriend or husband, it makes no difference.
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reader, idoneitagain  +, writes (4 May 2011):
He might find it a turn on, some people do of course, so there is no harm in him asking. I think its a good idea for people to speak about what they want and dont want with their partners. That is where you come in, if it is something you don't think you would like then it is up to you to speak your mind and say so.
There is nothing "wrong" with doing it, it is only a question of how you would feel about having him come in your face, and if you want to or not, or if you are interested in trying it and finding out what it is like.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (27 April 2011):
 if you want him to do it there's nothing wrong with it.
Personally for me I would not like it so I would not agree with it... but that's just me.
I don't see it as a power play or control, i think it stems from watching porn...
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2011): It's a question that's been raised a lot seemingly, and it is a sort of power trip, but I use that term loosely. The word degradation is often used here, but the fact is it's just one of mens basic instincts that some men respond to, and doesn't go beyond that of sexual pleasure. You will still be the same person to him as you were before the act (most likely :p).
Just make sure you don't get anything in the eyes, as it's known to burn and sting, and you should be fine :D
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reader, llifton +, writes (27 April 2011):
 there's nothing wrong with it as long as you don't mind it. that's only something you can answer. pretty condescending if you ask me. but hey, that's just me, and it's to each their own.
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