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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I found my husband has been talking to a lot of women. He has started hiding things better now that I found out he slept with one. He mashed up his cell phone because he didn't want me to see who was on it. He even went as far as changing the password and name on the bill so I couldn't see who is on it. Now tell me something do u think he is in love with one of these women or do u think he's still talking to them. I heard him on recorder talking to one of them at work saying if I call her she don't know him and how he's at the police station . Tell me what u think.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (27 April 2011):
 He's a cheater and a fraud. Why is he still married to you when clearly he neither respects or loves you anymore. Confront him dearie, you are still legally his wife. Tell him to go to couples counseling, or you are kicking him out. Then file for divorce and get everything you need to start over! You deserve so much more. This man will steal your soul if you aren't careful.
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reader, catcher00  +, writes (26 April 2011):
Either he is two-timing you and going to elaborate extremes to conceal his other life from you (which could be very dangerous, be careful...) or you are a very very jealous, suspicious person by nature and he has to hide even business contacts from you bc you will invade his privacy, find out and his the roof in a completely irrational way. Only you know the history of your relationship. Is this a pattern? If so, did you become suspicious because of his alarming behavior? Or were you always this way (with past boyfriends as well)? If it is the latter--then he really loves you a LOT to put up with it and go to such lengths to hide things that other women shouldn't or wouldn't get upset about..... if it's the former (the double life,) get out now bc not only does he not love or respect you, but you could be in physical danger, because if he wants so urgently to avoid divorce, he may do someting even more drastic than mashing his phone. Good luck and be cautious.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (26 April 2011):
 He's cheating on you! What does it matter if he's in love with one of these women? He's cheating. You need to kick him to the curb and fast.
He'll never stop either. He's hiding things from you, changing passwords on bills that you are entitled to know what's on them. He's spending your money on these women, and being unfaithful.
He doesn't love you if he's doing that, and I'm thinking that he doesn't love anyone but himself.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (26 April 2011):
 I think you should consider ending the marriage.
You are young and he clearly is a liar and cheater (at least emotionally if not physically)
I'm sorry.
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reader, BettyBoup  +, writes (26 April 2011):
 I think he cheated on you and that is enough reason to leave him. As for being in love with another woman, that doesn't come into it. He is far too immature for love. He loves himself right now and thinks he can sleep with whoever he wants and get away with it, and you are letting him do this.
If you suspect him of being involved with other women, from what you have said, I'd hazard a guess that YES he probably is seeing another woman or maybe even more than one other woman behind your back. All the signs are there. He's done it before, to you. He's gone to great lengths to prevent you seeing who has has been talking to and you overheard a highly suspicious phone call. What more do you need to know? The question is, why are you still with him?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (26 April 2011):
 I dont know if he loves her but it sounds to me like you are being a fool if you stay with this man. He is cheating on you with another woman and has no respect for you. It sounds to me like he is out to get what he wants and he will probably sleep with anyone if he thinks he is getting away with it.
You will never be able to trust him, he has already slept with someone once and thats all you know, my guess is that he has done it plenty of times behind your back. He doesnt respect or care for you. The best thing you can do is leave him and live a happy life without all the hassle. You deserve to be happy and have a man that will treat you the way you should be treated.
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