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female
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30-35,
*pendy
writes:What do you think? would it be weird if I did this? ? My ex boyfriend and I met on a dating site. He lied, cheated and dumped me but I loved him and was really hurt.I wanna go back on the dating site but he's on there. Should I put looking for a relationship to let him know am moving on or put 'looking for friends? Would it be weird been on the dating site? I don't want nothing to do with him after the way he treated me:(
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2011): Are you sure you are ready to meet someone new? Sounds like you are more interested in making him regret he lost you.
If you really want to go on a dating site there are plenty of others, without getting reminded of him.
Good Luck!
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2011): Hey, I would say go ahead and od it!! I just did it. I posted new photos on the site where I met my ex (he is still on it ), and i viewed him so he would see. Hr got back saying' Nice photos ( with a wink) . I did not respond to that. My ex really hurt me, and it gives me great pleasure to leave my profile on the dating site knowing he goes on the site most days( we met on the site too). I am also looking for someone else. I am going to leave it on there for around another month if not more.Do it if it makes you feel better, plus to prove to him that you are serious. I used to put mine on before when we split up, then take it back down as soon as I realised he had seen it. Not now. !! I want him to see I mean business. I wnat him to know I have moved on and am looking elsewhere for something better. !!! Good luck. Nx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2011): I'd say go ahead and post your ad again on the same site to show him that you're moving on. Are there other ways as well in which you can make it more obvious that you're not stuck thinking about him, and you're absolutely willing to forget him? Show him that you're not going to let his idiotic ways such as badly treating you get in the way of your happiness!
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reader, Harrow85 +, writes (28 April 2011):
 i'm unlucky in love too, dont know why, i'd like to think i'm quite a good looking lad, my ex lied about me being the father to her daughter.we did dna found out it wasn't mine. it was too late by this point, i'd bonded with the child and now she's 2 i forgave my ex, being the mug i am i loved her so, and every year on my birthday she's ends it saying she doesn't love me anymore in the past we have sorted it out or i should i say: not this time? though i feel like a door mat, i can't ring her now nor text her because i'm too scared of anymore rejection.I'm just going to try and move on, see how it goes, i'm lost and need to be found
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2011): Why do you have to use the same site, there are hundreds to pick from and using a new one would save all the hassle ?
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