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writes:What do i say to them? So theres this guy. lets say 'David' who i liked and he liked me, we never really 'went out' but we spoke a lot and clearly both liked eachother. (we held hands a few times) After time however David gave me the impression he didnt like me as he said he was more attracted to bigger women and kept going on about how amazing some girl was... nice **** etc. So i had to accept he didnt like me and move on despite still liking him. Then his best mate came into the picture lets say 'Jamie'. i liked him a lot and even fancied him, we shared some flirty texts and he invited me to the park. Then today David asked if i still liked him, i said 'sort of' then he kissed me!!. However i realised i really like Jamie and really regret kissing David. David being Jamies best mate probably told him i kissed him as Jamie text me and said he was 'unwell' meaning he couldnt come to the park. I dont know what theyve said to eachother but i really like Jamie, and dont know how to tell David this. I think Jamie is ignoring my texts... what do i say to both of them???
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reader, Sjroller14  +, writes (27 April 2011):
 Well first of all think who do you actually like more?
If its Jamie then explain to David that you like someone else.
If its David then explain to Jamie that you like someone else and you are sorry.
It all depends on what your heart tells you.
If you take to long to decide though they both might be gone so listen to your heart and act on it.
hope I helped :D
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reader, loveonce  +, writes (27 April 2011):
 look thinks are now centred upon you..you are in dilemma whom does you like..you are dating jamie and telling david the "sort of things",and kissing ..obviously a guy(jamie)will not tolerate this,if he is serious to u..now AS u have realised..you should tell it to david directly...that u dont want him,if you are unable to do so soon,forget that jamie would ever be back..so things are upon you..you decide whom do you want ..a guy who keeps on flipping,once to you and next moment to someone else(stating clearly that he does not like you anymore)..and now again to you..(it's not fair)..or one who is sincere ,comfortable with what you are...
{it may possible that this david person be a sort of forked tongue..he is playing tricks to come between you and jamie}....decide soon...otherwise it would be too late
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