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I need to last longer! Help!

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Question - (26 April 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2011)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

How can I keep my stamina going!?!? Because everytime I have sex with my girlfriend i get off in like a minute or less.

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A female reader, jessie11 United Kingdom +, writes (26 April 2011):

If you have tried techniques such as thinking of unsexual thoughts and trying out different rythms and positions you might want to consider going to the doctors where they will prescribe you antidepressants which delay ejaculation. However, lasting longer normally just happens with practice.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (26 April 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntWell the first best tip is when you are having sex try and think of something that is not sexual. It could be anything like thinking about football, your work, your grandmother. Just things that will take your mind of the actual sex itself could make you last longer.

If you feel like you are about to orgasm well then pull out for a couple of minutes and switch to foreplay. Girls like foreplay therefore its a good chance to spend a few minutes pleasuring your girlfriend.

Try and control your breathing as well. Take long slow breaths. This will calm you down and stop you getting to excited.

Try lots of different positions as well to see what one you feel you can last the longest with. Experiment and am sure you will find one position that allows you to last longer than the other ones.

When you feel like you are going to orgasm squeeze the glands at the top of your penis until the urge to come passes.

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