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anonymous
writes:Ive been with my boyfriend 15 months and been having sex since about last june so im quite used to it as we do it regularly.the one thing that i cannot bring myself to do is hive him oral. I want to but theres something holding me back, mainly because i used to be so against it and swore i never would because its disgusting in my thought but i can tell he wants me too and ive really been working hard to try and do it. ive been thinking about it more positively and convincing myself that it wont be so bad but to be honest i havent got the slightest clue of where to start or what to do. I think thats what scares me the most.... the fact that i dont know what to do. so advice needed from guys and girls. I need help i want to be able to please my boyfriend in a new way.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (26 April 2011):
 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/oral-sex-can-be-a-sharing-experience-.html
That's a good article to start with. It shows how good some women feel about oral sex and giving it to their partner. Of course, some of it would need to be built up to.
The truth is, you don't have to be great at it to start, you just have to be willing to learn. If you ask for pointers, your BF will be the best person to give them. The reason is that everyone likes different things, and what gets one person off may not work for another. Take your time, and don't do more than you're comfortable with.
A couple more threads worth reading: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-go-down-on-him-but.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/repulsed-by-giving-oral-sex-how-can-i.html
I hope they help.
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