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30-35,
*razybeast
writes:grrrr ok... well its my last year with "tom" been best friends for a very long time now and there has always been atraction and flirting from me and him.we sit together in quite corners and not buisy places in the school, i reaaallly like him and he seem's to be into me but says no, he sometimes kisses my neck and hugs me from behind in a loving way and to be frank... its quite creepy coming from the "straight" person your really into, out lips have even touched on one occasion but only briefly, we have been to parties and got a bit drunk and near kissed then and still he says that he into guys or atleast curious... i dont care about his sexual preference but does he like me? seriously... what straight guy does that for fits and giggles.. it annoys me so and can sometimes make me angry and agrovated and it needs to stop... ive told him to stop doing this to me if he not interested yet he carries on... soo? opinions/suggestions anyone?? xx Beasty xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2010): Hmm. This is a tough one to answer, because I've been there. Actually, my best friend (since middle school - up until now) is hetero and we had a similar friendship dynamic sans the experimenting kisses. I wasted all my high school, wondering if he liked me because his "joking" behavior came off as flirting with me. On top of it there were comments that sounded peculiar coming from a straight guy, however, after a few eye opening experiences...I had to either give up his friendship or learn to deal with the fact that he is straight, despite his questioning behavior towards me. Once I realized, I was over him. I came out to him. And we're still best friends. At the time during high school my desire of dating him seemed like the right thing, but when I look at the friendship now. Backing off was the best thing I could have done, because he's an amazing friend. As for my infatuation for him, that went away when I started to realize that I only liked him because in my ideal world I had made him out to be a certain way that he really wasn't.
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reader, der_zyniker  +, writes (14 September 2010):
I think he likes you, but he doesn't want to risk your friendship. Ask him why he does these things and don't accept "I don't know" for an answer.
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