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How can I spice up the sex life?

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Question - (13 September 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 15 September 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So i dont like giving head because my gag reflexs work like crazy and itsends me into a gagging fit. What are some things i can do to spice up the sex life without that. Also im not very expierenced im 20 and just started having sex 2 years ago and havent really done much in the sex area. Thanks for the help!

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (15 September 2010):

Moo's Mum agony auntChocolate sauce is a good one. Smother some of that on him and lick it off. Erotic and delicious

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A male reader, jimrich United States +, writes (14 September 2010):

Read some sex manuals & books, watch porn (it's very educational!), google: sex techniques, that's about all I can think of other than use your imagination or ask him what he wants.

good luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2010):

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is there any other things icould do? I read a magazine befor about different objects like ice and candle wax but im not trying to hurt him and im not trying to do something thats a turn off any ideas?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2010):

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thanks guys!!!

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A female reader, sarahrose20 Canada +, writes (14 September 2010):

if you dont like giving head try pleasing him with your hands or different sex positions ask him what he likes

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A female reader, fi_the_tree United Kingdom +, writes (14 September 2010):

fi_the_tree agony auntwrap your entire hand around the shaft (like your holding a microphone) and keep your lips against the top of your hand. Move your head and hand together gripping firmly (but not too tight!) This gives the illusion of deep throating, without the gag reflex! As the other poster said, keep your mouth around the head of the penis and use your hand for the rest of the shaft.

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (14 September 2010):

Moo's Mum agony auntYou can still give head with a bad gag reflex just don't take it all into your mouth. Do lots of licking and just suck on the head of the penis only. He will still like this!

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