A
female
age
30-35,
*P1993
writes:Hey guys, thanks for reading.Straight to the point, i've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and i love him to bits. But looking back at our relationship, he bascily got out of one relationship and into ours. And he had been with his last girlfriend for on and off 3 years. Thing is, at the start of our relationship, in the first few weeks, if she rang him, he'd answer, even if we were having a cuddle on the sofa or in the middle of a conversation, and walk away while he was on the phone. Not far away, just a couple of metres. Then she used to text him asking him like, how to fix her tv or something and he'd text back straight away. And there was one occasion where she phoned him and asked to meet up and go for a drive where she wanted to clear the air between them and he went. They were a couple of hours. He openly told me he was going to see her, but at that time i was so smitten i didnt think anything of it.I have to point out that he's SO not the type of guy who would hurt me or cheat on me or anything like that. But i'm a bit worried that he still had feelings for her then? I'm pretty confident he doesnt now, but i'm confused about that.Sorry for the long comment and thanks for any advise x
View related questions:
text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (14 September 2010):
 3 years together, and then you guys got together straight away or did you take time to know one another? If he didn't have the time to grieve then I would say yes there is still some feelings there. The minute she calls or texts he jumps. He could either ignore the phone call or wait till you guys are done spending time with her and text her back later. That's what voicemail is for, plus it's rude to be on your phone when you're supposed to be spending quality time together. Have a chat with your boyfriend about his behavior towards her, tell him that's fine if they're friends but honestly some of the things she texts him about could wait, and her phone calling is interrupting your time spent together. I'm thinking he's not aware he's doing it, after the chat if he continues to do with this behavior then I would suggest rethinking the relationship because you could be the rebound here.
|
