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anonymous
writes: A few months ago I got back with my ex, first time around we were only togheter for 2 months, almost a year later, we grew close again. And so decided to give it another try. The first month was great, the second month all she had time for was her vacation job + babysitting. Now the school year has started again and I only see her once a week. Which isn't nearly enough for me, but seems to be no problem for her. I know she loves me, but what I don't understand is if you really love someone how can you get by with only seeing them once a week? I know she really wants to succeed this year and I understand that, it's her second time, she failed last year. But I know tons of people who also still go to school, and always find some time in between study sessions for their girl/boyfriend. So I don't understand why she can't. Can someone help me understand?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (16 September 2010):
She has two jobs plus school, she's busy there's nothing you can do about that. Plus she failed last year? So she will be focusing on her studies a lot more than spending time with you. What about the weekends? You're just going to have to take what you can get right now until fall/spring break and the summer when you can see her more.
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