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male
age
41-50,
*arzzz
writes:I just broke up with my girlfriend last week for 4 yrs relationship, she is threatening me in many ways and not letting me leave her, all she wants is to get married with her, I told her that I will get married to her one day, but she needs a date, I promised her of a lifetime commitment, but she wants me to tell my parents immediately about our relationship and make things moving, I dont want to do all this as my parents are not prepared for it right now, my dad just got retired, has no job and is finding things hard, they are themselves very stressed.she is threatening me by saying that she will tell her friends to beat me up, will come to my home and talk to my parents directly. and many other things. I am stressed and not able to concentrate on anything . Please help me what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2010): hi i am an indian girl myself . and i am sorry for whatever she is doing with you. what shocks me the most is " after being with you for 4yrs relationship" how could she threaten you in such manner."all i can say as a girl is . she is feeling insecure , you need to do something. atleast tell your parents that you have a girl in your life and would like to marry her someday.Not marrying now but as time permits.have you guy had sexual relationship, she might be stressed with the fact , that your just using her and nothing else.please man just let your parents know you love her and someday would wish to marry her. thats the best advice I can give. Otherwise just shoo her away as her behaviour is getting worse day by day. but it will be sad , as you claim you have been in a four yrs relationshipso think before you take any desicions.best of luck.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (13 September 2010):
 Why would she want to marry a guy who doesn't love her? I think the two of you need to talk about this.
And if you two were together for 4 years, how come your parents didn't know about her already?
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