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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:hi,well basically me and my boyfriend have been on and off for 3 years, we r currently on nad have been for 5 months. the problem is i know it doesnt sound big but i was wondering what to make of this. we went to the cinema with a grooup of mates and i saved a place for him at the back but then he went and sat at the front with his friend hu's a girl. the thing is he has always fancied her but she has never fancied him back. so ny i was upset but i didnt let on to anyone. so i moved closer nd i he was texting this girl and all i saw was her saying 'hah you'll have to wait and see! xx' nd then he text back saying ':P X'. i wasnt snooping i just happened to see but the thing tht is getting me down is that he never texts me, and if i text him he never texts back yet here he is texting this girl! so wht im trying to ask is with all tht happened that day (i know it doesnt sound a lot) what shud i make of it and should i say/do somehting about it.? a guys opinion would also be great (as would a woman lol) thnx! xx
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reader, Elydiese +, writes (13 September 2010):
He's not interested in you you have to let him go because he doesnt care you should find someone who does
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (13 September 2010):
I feel a bit bad for teenage girls, because you do have to put up with a lot from teenage boys, as you are with this guy. Someone once said teenage boys could be more cruel than anything, and this is the proof. At his age, he simply doesn't get the idea of commitment, or relationships. The fact that you've broken up and got back together a few times already proves it's just not working. You're just not that important to him. I think you need to make a mature decision for your own good and move on. He's not suddenly going to become a good boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2010): I would walk away. If he needs more attention than you can give him, he's not worth your time. You can certainly give him an ultimatum, but if he's actively flirting, than he's looking around. He doesn't have you as a priortiy, and a girlfriend should never even have to worry about something like this.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (13 September 2010):
 Yep, you have every reason to be upset, he doesn't sound considerate about your feelings at all.
How much do you love this guy? I personally think you could do better on your own or with somebody who treats you more respectful and makes you feel like number one.
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