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anonymous
writes:I hate my boyfriend, he a controlling manipulative SOB ad i just can't stand him anymore, i tried to break up with him 12 times in the last month and nothing worked! i even told that i cheated before 3 days and he still doesn't want to let me go.he makes me promise every single day that i will not leave him and it just makes it harder for me. he always wants me to do what he wants and doesn't care for my needs and when he feels that i will leave him he does something amazing so i would change my mind. once he said that he threw his future for me .. and yesterday he said that he isn't talking with his family because of me!!i do not want him anymore and i'm just sick of this. Every day he wakes me up 9 am, he keeps talking with me from 9 AM to 5 PM! then he wants me to go out with him and later he talks with me from 9 PM to 3AM in the next day.i'm just do sick of this. he also keeps telling me that i will be lonely and no one will want me when i leave him, also he has some embarrassing pictures of me that he tells me he'll show to my friends if we broke up.please tell me what to do. The phone is in my hand and i want to text him telling that we are over but i'm scared, PLZ help!thnx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2010): ask him to delete all you pictures, you can persuade him to do that.
think about this situation, why he wants you after all, and is there something he can do to make it work for you.
and after that if you still it wont work for you, you need to tell him and have the courage to leave him, you may need to change your mobile number, go out with new people that will make him understand it is over.
i hope that will be enough to make him let you go.
wish you the best
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (13 September 2010):
 Just tell him that you can't be with him anymore. If you can get hold of these pictures you say he has of you, then delete/destroy them.
There is no point in continuing in a relationship if you're not happy. Bite the bullet, tell him it's over, and get on with your life!!
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