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writes:The last months i haven't gone out with the man i used to date last year. As he didn't consider me as a real relationship and he didn't give me a lot of inerest, i decided to not give him any interest, we only talk very rarely at phone as he rarely calls me and i rarely call him too. During these months i was going out with other people, seeing other friends. Although i have decided not seeing him again i really can't put him out of my mind and forget him for ever. Except this, i feel that i have made mistakes and i couldn't be with him. I really want to get over these feelings of guilty but is it possible? Although i want i can't get over him. And if sometimes he calls me again is it better not seeing him at all? Reply to this Question
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reader, jimrich  +, writes (13 September 2010):
re: I really want to get over these feelings of guilty but is it possible?
... Yes, if you 'really want to'!
One possibility is to google: self worth and begin improving yours.
Another is to google: codependency and learn what that is and how to fix yours.
Finally: counseling or therapy
good luck
Jim
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