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*huck1
writes:I been with my wife for 10 years and married for 3. I love her but I'm not in love with her no more. We have a beautiful daughter together and she's the reason why I stayed this long. Here are my reasons why: I'm not attracted to her, she's not that good in bed, she want even kiss me, she can't cook very well, she don't clean up, we really don't joke and play around no more, she's so predictable and I don't she love my kids before he like I do. I can't see u together much longer and before I die I want to be in love at least once more. What should I do? I don't want hurt her. Reply to this Question
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reader, xoxDrkrosexox +, writes (13 September 2010):
man..seriously?!?! i agree with Dirtball. u need to try and then so will she..,dont just give up!!! BE A MAN!!! haha:) good luck...
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (13 September 2010):
 I agree with db, you say you don't want to hurt her but you most likely have been by your "poor me" attitude. This whole "I love you but I'm not in love with you" is a bunch of crap. Man up and see if you can find a way to put the spark into your marriage. You owe it to her and your daughter plus you just may surprise yourself as well.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (13 September 2010):
 Let me ask you this:
Why did you finally marry her after 7 years?
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reader, dirtball +, writes (13 September 2010):
 Based on what you've said, my guess is that you aren't very nice to her. What would be her motivation to want to please you in bed, clean up after you, joke and play, cook well for you, if you're an unappreciative jerk like you appear to be here? Does she work too? Do you do any cleaning up too? How do you know she doesn't love your daughter?
I'd bet your daughter is the only thing keeping her with you too. I can't sense any love in your words. My guess is that you drove it out of her too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2010): leave her. i know you don't want to hurt her but don't stay with someone you feel bad for. There is no one out there worth sacrificing your happiness for.
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