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26-29,
anonymous
writes:i just started high school,... and i met this guy on the first day. he's a junior, and im a freshman. i dont have any classes with him, but every time i see him, and he sees me, he gives me this crazy-adorable smile. how do i know if he's interested in me? i really hope he is, but will he be interested in a younger girl? if he is interested in me, if we go out, will he only be interested in sex? what should i do? should i just move on? i really like him,..... a lot.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (14 September 2010):
 Of course you're fresh meat. You're a new crop of women to roll into school. My husband is 5 years older than me, so yes I do like them a little older. But do beware because you are younger, these guys are a little advanced. They are interested in sex, messing around, and making out. I was a sophomore going out with a senior, note I was just allowed to date, we went to the movies and he shoved his tongue so far down my throat I was going to gag. Plus, his hands were migrating to places that were a little inappropriate for a first date. Needless to say, I didn't give in to his sexual urges and he dumped for the next girl who would.
I say go for it, ask him his name, flirt away. But do keep in mind what agony aunts have said on here. Not all high school guys are like that, you will come across some who are respectful and aren't animals. You just have to use your best judgement. Good Luck in the dating realm!
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reader, Odds +, writes (14 September 2010):
 Yes, guys in general dig girls younger than themselves. In high school, freshman girls tend to be very low-maintenance compared to junior girls, and are less likely to have an ex-boyfriend who goes to the same math class.
You'll have to judge for yourself whether or not he's only interested in sex. I couldn't say from the info given. Just don't get too caught up in the moment - pause every now and then, like you are now, and really think about what you're doing. Don't let him pressure you into sex, particuarly while you're underage.
Other than that, enjoy the dating life. Good luck.
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