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writes:I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 18 and we have been going out for 4 months. he lives 40 miles away from me. we have met up once every 3 weeks since we been going out. when we first started going out about a week into it i found out he was still talking to other girls calling them babe and sexy and stuff so i dumped him a few days later i missed him and we got bakc together then 2 weeks after that i found out that he had a social networking site that he told me he had deleted and he was talking to girls all over the world and i wasnt sure what he was talking to them about but i yet again finished it with him. a week later he said he will delete it if i get back with him so i did and he deleted it. so we got on well for 2 months. then a week ago he went out with his mates on a saturday and i asked him who he was with (i dont trust him that much) and he said oh just couple guy mates and i was fine with that. then 2 days after that night i was on bebo and he had commented on a girls status and i found out he had been there with his mates. he didnt tell me so i did dump him but i missed him so now a week later i am wondering whether he deserved another chance. did he deserve it and what would you do if you was me? thanksssss xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni am going to get a new sim card at the weekend and have deleted and blocked him of all my websites. thank youu u made me realise he aint gonna change for anybodyyy xx
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reader, Duckyhelp +, writes (13 September 2010):
 Nope, if hes done it 3 times before, he hasnt learnt his lesson, dump him, he wont care as he hasnt come crawling back to you, its always you after him, cause he knows you will come back.
Dump him, and get on with life, you live far away from each other so its not a problem being away from him. Hang out with mates to get over him. Delete him off everything, especially his mobile number.
I hope you do this, or else you could be missing out on a boy very special and someone who would treat you the way you want to be treated.
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reader, vamp-gal +, writes (13 September 2010):
 It's an on-and-off .. fairly long distance relationship where you've said yourself that you don't trust him.
If there's no trust in a relationship then it doesn't work, and in a long distance relationship it's even worse because you can't be with them as much as you'd like.
Giving him another chance may be a bad idea because he keeps going against his word promting you to break up with him - it's a vicious circle.
Don't go back to him and see what happens, it'll be harder at first but you may find yourself happier without constantly wondering what he's doing and whether he's lying to you.
Hope this helps x
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2010): If you are thinking it, then you are not happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe is my boyfriend now i missed the last bit off that i gave him yet another one but i started thinking and dunno weva i shud have
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2010): Short answer, No he doesn't. Apart from anything else you are seeing him just once every 3 weeks. Every time you take him back you are giving him the message that he can behave however he feels like. You have ended it, leave it that way.
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