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51-59,
anonymous
writes: Through sexual intercourse my girlfriend often reaches orgasm a good few minutes before I ejeculate. Apart from me actually stopping. Does anyone have any tips for delaying my girlfriend in reaching orgasm before me?We have tried different positions and different speeds etc... some positions she doesnt reach orgasm at all. It seems doggy style always works for her and is her favourite.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2010): I'm guessing you want to have simultaneous orgasms? Can you try timing things yourself so you hit on her 3rd or 4th? I had a partner that I was able to do this with, but had to bite my lip or think about baseball (funny, I know) to hold back. It's incredible when it does happen, but like Honeypie says, it's uncommon. I don't worry about it. As long as she comes first, I'm happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@Honeypie
Oh no it's certainly no complaint. I feel great that she can actually have one or two through intercourse. It hasnt been the case with all past partners.
I was just curious more than anything. She certainly does not complain :-)
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (13 September 2010):
Why does it matter if she orgasms before you? The whole we HAVE to get off at the same time is such a cliche and really.... rarely happens. That's PORN, not real love making.
On a good night, I get at least 3 in before my husband gets his. He certainly has no complaints, not do I.
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