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writes:i'm so blur on where actually am i standing in her heart now. i like this girl but i don wanna confess to her yet. but this doesn't help because many weeks ago when she got injured on her ankle i took great care of her. a care that no normal friends would do. her friends, my friends, her, all noticed that i like here, although i did not deny it, i did not admit it either. i even did accompany her on her flight back to her hometown and then return on the next earliest flight. her mom invited me to overnight at their place since i have no place to stay for that night. next morning she and her mom sent me to the airport. after that we text each other again. during our conversation, i offered her a ride from the airport when she come back from her hometown after our tuition free week. she rejected. indirectly. she said she doesn't wanna accept my offer that could make me think that i have a chance with her. She said she will not avoid me or anything, just trying to avoid misunderstand. her mom even advised her "tell him what you feel if you cant go on with him. keep a distance or else you're using him"now that campus resumes.. sometimes i offer her rides to campus. she accept. many times she ask me to help her out in her assignments and do some research. i'm glad to help her.Now what is my position? Do i have a chance?she did said that she doesn't wanna get into a relationship yet.. not until after her graduation. Another reason is because in a few semester time she will be transfer to an offshore campus and explaining that she is a type of person that doesn't actually keep in touch with long distance friends.. so she afraid that a breakup could happen by then if she start a relationship now..
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reader, tenfold +, writes (17 September 2010):
tenfold is verified as being by the original poster of the questionPrecisely! coz a few nights ago she and i had a 'good' conversation. other than what johnnyrockets said, she also expressed what she is feeling now.
firstly, She said she doesn't have a feel for me now. she said she doesn't feel like i am the one.
Yes i can understand that she doesn't have the feel for me now. But we only started to get close to each other recently(so far less than 2 months). but we were hi-bye frens before for like more than a year already. that was when i was in a relationship with other girl..
secondly she said that we both doesnt have a future. that i dont understand. what is a meaning of dont have a future together.
She also told me her plan.. after graduation she'll work a few years then take her master degree. she said am i really gonna wait for her for like 7 years?
she said i've done too much for her, feeling that she is owing me something. I did told her she din owe me anything as i was doing all these for her on my own will..
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