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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together just over a year, its going great. we have had the odd argument here and there but other then that we have been going fine. However, the other night I took my laptop with me to his house as I was staying over and he must have gone on it whist I was asleep. I just checked my laptop and there is a picture of a girl I have never met or seen before in my life saved to my documents, when I traced the picture back it came from the social networking site MyYearBook and indeed my boyfriend has been talking to her. She also quite happily left a sticker on his wall saying ‘just thought I’d tell you I love you’. I haven’t spoke to my boyfriend about it yet so I don’t know if it generally is just a friend but I’m worried… what should I do?
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (13 September 2010):
 I think that you should be worried that he isn't the sharpest pencil in the case.
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reader, Agony Doctor +, writes (13 September 2010):
 Hi,
Do not torment yourself about this, just ask him outright about who the girl is in the picture and lets just hope that he is honest enough to tell you calmly without too much frustration. Signs to look for are nervousness in his answer or watch for the change in his body language when confronted over it. Some people can hide the obvious in body language when they are lying but the suttle ones are easily seen. Watch the eyes the most as the slightest look to the left if your boyfriend is right handed will indicate that there is something wrong with the answer he gave you.
good luck in your questioning.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2010): i'd ask him who it is....he will tell you who it is if he has nothing to hide. if he doesnt then he has something to hide
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