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female
age
41-50,
*un5353
writes:HiI am 35 and dating a guy who is 46. He is very handosome and fit. We have been dating for 3 months and he refers me as his GF. We spend weekends together at my place and his place. We travel together and he invites me to all parties, dinners with his friends, so everythings seems perfect apar from: Women is always after him as he is very handsome and he always tells me when we go to a party " that girl there fancis me, etc. I am very confident myself and |I tell him I dont care. The thing is he is americana and I don't know much about american guys and the way they behave, whether they are serious or not. Also whe are very passionate about each other in bed but he has difficult in getting hard, he gets half hard and it takes a long time for him to come and sometimes he does not come and that makes me insecure. Should I say anything??
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (22 March 2010):
Too right you should - your hardly in a commited relationship after only 3 months
Why on earth need you feel insecure. He is an idiot to act like this going about who fancies him. Futhermore he needs to act like a man and clearly he has no idea how his teenage behavior impacts on the relationship.
Wave him goodbye!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (22 March 2010):
 A man is very sensitive when it comes to his tool , his performance and his earning capacity. Their ego's are very fragile like glass.
You should handle it with utmost care and sensitivity.It could be worries and stress about performance or too much sex.
The best option is to be patient and understanding and not comment about his conditions ,for he already knows what is wrong with him.
Your comments would be like adding salt to the wounds.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (22 March 2010):
 Well I don't know whether the classification of an American guy makes much difference, but his supposed popularity, handsomeness and other indications may not portend a lasting relationship for you.
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