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36-40,
anonymous
writes:i have been having sex for almost 5yrs now an not once i have ever experienced an orgasm. wat's wrong wit me??? what can i try to get 1???
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2010): I am 26 yrs of age and would like to add that i had suffered with the same issue. Until fairly recently. Only one year ago. I realized that the whole time i attempted at sexual release I could not fully focus my thoughts on this. ..hate to tell you, but it took me years to master it. The key to female orgasm is alot different to male orgasm. It does require alot of mental concentration, and you must relax. I found that rigorous stimulation on the clitoris is quite effective. I will be honest with you... there have been many a time when i have masturbated for an hr just to reach orgasm. It's worth it! Sometimes it's just low libido. I like to fantasise that's how it works for me. Oh... and also found positioning oneself is another factor, try this one.... kneel on the floor with cushioning under your knees while poising yourself upright. I usually support my body weight with a couch or bed, leaning one hand against it. I really hope this information may help you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): Try the Magic Wand by Hitachi. If that doesn't work then you don't have a clitorus. Get a book and learn about yourself.
DoubleM - Both men and women are to blame for a lot of the problems, not just men. I'm amazed at how many women go through life and then start to have sex and can't have an orgasm and then they wonder why? EVERYTHING takes practice to be good at.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 Unfortunately, many women on the planet never or rarely experience orgasm as a result of intercourse, or even other sexual activities, but I believe that this is primarily a result of ignorance, laziness or ineptitude on the part of the man. In other words, many men, especially those with limited experience, have little knowledge about how to please a woman.
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