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writes:This guy and I have been "talking" since Christmas. We've talked before in the past but things always sizzled out being as we live about 2 hours from each other and don't get to see each other that often. Well, this is the longest we have talked and we have got to see each other quite a bit. For the first 3 months things were awesome- I couldn't have been happier. I was having a tough time and this guy really helped me become happier. He told me he wanted me to go to college where he was going (the college he was going to was in my top 2 choices before we started talking) and he was really super sweet and just everything was going great. A few weeks ago I spent the night at his house. We didn't have sex but we messed around. Ever since then I feel like he doesn't care at all about me. We still talk but it's not the same. He swears nothing is wrong but I don't believe him. This could be because one of his ex-girlfriends contacted me saying that they had sex the night after I spent the night with him. She goes to college in the town he lives in. She told me they talk quite a bit and hangout quite a bit. He tells people though he just uses her for a piece of ass. This guy is a well known player but I guess I just wished he had changed. All his friends know about me and I honestly thought he liked me. He tells this girl though that me and him don't really talk that much when in fact we talk all the time- or at least we use to. I wonder what he tells people about me. Is he just using me for a piece of ass? When I said something like that (saying he just wanted me for sex) he got really mad at me. I don't know what to do. I'm really crushed about this. Please help.
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reader, ls22103 +, writes (23 March 2010):
ls22103 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionPinktopaz- his ex contacted me because we know each other through various things and we are decent friends. i actually did ignore him and he completely freaked out on my asking me "wtf my deal was". but anyways, thanks for your help!
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (23 March 2010):
I'm kind of curious as to how his ex was able to contact you and tell you all this? Anyhow, it sounds like when you spent the night and he didn't get any he lost interest because that's all he wanted. Be happy that you didn't end up having sex with him and then acting the same way, which could very well have been the case. I say, turn the tables and act like you could care less about him also, so don't call him or bother with him....he'll probably start acting like a baby because you're not paying any attention to him anymore. Plus, if he's still sleeping with his ex and is a known player, you'll be worried and have trust issues with him in a relationship.
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