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writes:I had been in an off and on relationship with my ex for over three years. We and everyone around us from the beginning said that there was a powerful connection with us and it made those in our company always feel like a third wheel. However he would cheat lie and not come home for weeks at a time and when he did it was magical and we would be happy for awhile. He would always come home and the girls he would cheat with would know this too but in order to get these women he would tell them i was a stalker and that i meant nothing to him. I got married 4 months after breaking up with him and I still love him, my husband doesnt know how much I love him still and comtemplate leaving my new life for my old life but I cant help the man I love even if he treats me like crap i am forever devoted to him and the strange love he and I share... but why is it that he treats me so badly and I stay by his side and my hubby treats me like a princess and I dont want to be here?
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reader, Sarah_87  +, writes (23 March 2010):
its a tough situation you have. but it's only been 4 months since you broke up, and now your married to another man? is that a bit rushed?? you havent given yourself enough time to heal from your ex-boyfriend before starting a new life.
if your ex-boyfriend cheats on you and treats you so badly he doesn't love you! why would you risk a life with someone who doesn't love you? it may be great for you but surely inside it must break your heart to know he's been with other people?
i think you may be making a very big mistake if you go back to your ex, you need to take time to let your heart heal and then review the situation after that..
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reader, Entirely Unique +, writes (22 March 2010):
 I don't really think anyone can answer that, alot of people find going for the bad boys/girls is more appealing than the good ones yet are forever wanting to find someone that will treat them good and right.
I really don't think you should go back with your ex but at the same time I'm not so sure you're really doing right by your husband and surely he deserves to be with someone that loves him like he loves them?
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