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writes:When I was 12 1/2 , I lived with my dad. when my step- mom wasn't home he would take showers with me and make me touch his dick, and balls. and he drove semis, and I would go with him, and he started to make me sleep with him and he would touch me In the wrong places. and he would make me touch him and I'm 13 and now living with my mom and I want to tell but I don't know how. Reply to this Question
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reader, YourDestiny11 +, writes (24 March 2010):
 The best advice i can give you hun is to tell ur mom right away. He needs to be in trouble that is wrong and its not ur fault at all. Wish u the best of luck. sorry u had to go through something so horrible. stay strong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): As a very little girl, my older cousin would sexually abuse me. I felt like my mom would be mad or something so I didn't tell her for 6 years and it killed me. I was so confused.
When I told her, I felt so relieved.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2010): Honey, you MUST TELL SOMEONE. Are you afraid your mother will not believe you? I would hope that she would. What you father did was horrible...it was wrong and you need to tell so that he can be stopped and will not touch or molest another child. God bless you honey.
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reader, Teddiie_Confused +, writes (22 March 2010):
 ive been in this situation but not as deep. My dad (step dad) asked me to (do something nasty) while a towel was over him and he was watchin a porn. Now it tool me 1 day to talk to her but she could tell something was wrong... you just have to tell her... sit her down and start off by mom i have held in a secret that i never wanted to tell you but i feel as tho i need to get this off my chest. no when you tell her she will be mad but not at you at all my mom was soooo mad and i thought i was wrong for telling her but she told me no she loves me so much that she's angry at her self for the choice of him her choosen your mom might not feel that way but she will be extremly upset with your father but she will still be there for you if your mom is understanding and will talk to you about girl stuff she will understand and talk to you about it...
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (22 March 2010):
 I think that the other aunts have given you some great advice.
You need to tell your mom. What he did was terrible, and it is NOT your fault. You deserve to have counseling and to be protected from abuse in the future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2010): What happened to you is terrible and you should seek counseling. You might find it easier to tell your therapist or psychologist before your mom. It might be hard for your mom to accept that it really happened, so just in case it would be good to have another person's support. If you tell your mom that you need to talk to a professional she will probably not make you tell her why. Another option is to seek professional help through your school.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2010): sweetheart,what your dad did was terribly wrong, but you already know that. I would suggest that you tell your mom that you need to talk to her alone. Then you will find the words to start. Starting is the hardest part. If you just cant say the words, write it down and give it to her. She will be upset but do not take it personally. It will not be at you. Please do this as soon as possible, you need to have someone to protect you from this happening again. hugs to you, mal
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (22 March 2010):
 Tell her like what you are telling us. Your mom has to know in order to prevent any future abuse.
What your dad did was inappropriate and wrong. Your mom will know how to deal with the situation.
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reader, Entirely Unique  +, writes (22 March 2010):
 Theres no real way to tell someone something like this, it can be hard for you to tell someone and hard for that person you're telling to hear.
I think you will feel better by sharing this with your Mum and being able to allow her to deal with this situation for you and do what is right.
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