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writes:I just started dating this guy a couple weeks ago and he has been bringing up his x girlfriends all the time. He always says he likes me and stuff but he still ALWAYS brings them up. It didn't really bug me until I decided to be a facebook creeper and see what these girls looked like. They are all really cute and tiny! Like size zero 5'2 cute girls. I am not a size zero and not even close to 5'2. I am more like a size 10 and a 5'6. My friends keep telling me he must just love my personality but I don't understand how he can still be attracted to me when I am not the type of girl he has dated. So my question is do most guys always stick with the same type of girl or could he really be attracted to me?
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (23 March 2010):
I agree that it's not good that he's always talking about ex girlfriends. Are you a potential love interest or his therapist? Obviously he's not ready to move on if he's always bringing them up, and I honestly don't think it has anything to do with you not being a size 0. If he brings up the ex's once again tell him that you weren't aware that this was a therapy session and move on to the next subject.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010): looks only matter initially, if you are a size 0 or 10 or twelve. After that it is all personality. The greatest sex organ is the brain.
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reader, Joeyxxox  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 firstly, just because you're not size zero doesn't mean you can't be attractive!
Also, if you do genuinely like him, tell him you don't really appreciate him bringing up all these girls all the time.
What you need to think about though is if that's really the kinda guy you wanna be with and will it always be in the back of your mind. Do you really need that?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (22 March 2010):
A man who is always bringing up his ex's has a problem. In fact, it's a big red flag. Think carefully about whether you want to just be second best. He doesn't seem all that into you if he's acting this way.
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