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writes:*OP's own title*I'm in a 2 years relationship. basically, i do not trust my GF. i'm sooo unhappy, i have been trying to break up with her for the past three months. all attempts failed. in fact, sometimes i end up having sex with her when im going to break up. i don't know what to do, i really dont trust her and i don't think i have feelings for her anymore. she has been trying very very hard to change everything i dislike about her behavior, and honestly, she did well. but i cannot deny myself. I do not trust her and i'm sooo unhappy with her.the biggest problem is that i'm so bad at breaking hearts, whenever i break up with her, i feel bad when she cries and chase me back.what to dooooooo? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2010): you want to break up with her, yet you end up sleeping together.. what signs do you think that gives her?
& you want to break it off with her, you'll make it even harder on her.
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (22 March 2010):
 whenever a relationship comes to an end its upsetting so you have to expect the tears it doesnt matter what way you end a relationship it will always be difficult but sometimes you have to be strong and hold out even if it is harsh why should you be unhappy to keep her happy?you need to explain to her that no matter how much she tries to change you cant trust her and you think you need to go your seperate ways as your not happy but you hope to stay friends
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (22 March 2010):
I think you have to break up with her. You're not really happy with aspects of her and you're getting her to change. And even when she has changed, you still don't trust her or like her behaviour. You have to address your own trust issues now, because she is doing everything she can to fix it and it's not working. I don't think this is a woman you can be with.
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (22 March 2010):
I don't really believe that anyones softness to keep from breaking a persons heart is so intense that they ignore how they really feel. My theory is that you really do love her. If you really didn't love her then. Reaking her heart wouldn't be so hard that you really just wouldn't be able to do it.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (22 March 2010):
 If you cannot stand breaking her heart, you should give your relationship another chance.
Wipe your slate clean and start all over again . She has changed for you and regarding the trust issues, you should forgive her and slowly learn to trust her again.
Either that or you steel your heart and break off from her or run far far away from her.
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