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anonymous
writes:i have got married to the girl of my dreams and lost her 1.5 months after wedding, the reason was our repeated arguments and i was tough enough with her although i love her more than myself. she left three weeks ago, she is not answering my calls, emails and sms. ive sent her today an email explaining why did i behave that way but she is not reacting to anything. What would that mean? would it mean that she is still angry and doesnt want to reply or she is no more interested in the relationship?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 You have to go and see her face to face and try to fix your problem. You have to talk to her and find out what is her problem.
If you are in the wrong , eat humble pie.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010): thanks for your help, what would be the best thing to write her? how frequently i need to write her? for female participants, please tell me...
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reader, Red Green 0289  +, writes (23 March 2010):
"would it mean that she is still angry and doesn't want to reply or she is no more interested in the relationship"
Both... cut your losses, move on and don't make the mistake a second time. Learn from your errors, grow and go on...
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reader, Joeyxxox  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 To be honest, maybe you should just leave her to it for a bit. She's obviously in a difficult place at the moment and doesn't want to talk.
Just let her know you're waiting and you love her and she can contact you when she's ready.
In the mean time try and focus on other things to try and take your mind off it, i know it must be really difficult but you don't want to run yourself down being stressed.
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (22 March 2010):
I fear there is a lot more to this than you are telling us. If not to have gone so soon suggests she may feel it is all a huge mistake.
You must go and see her today sit down in public where you can not end up arguing?
Good Luck!
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reader, Entirely Unique +, writes (22 March 2010):
 It could be anything, it could just be she still needs time before she is ready to talk about the marriage and situation.
I would try sending her something not expecting a reply but something in the way of telling her how much you love her and realise what you did etc, you want to be able to work on this and sort this out and you're there if she decides this is what she wants too.
That why you're not pressuring her to do something but she knows the door is open if/when she's ready.
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