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writes:Okay, I hope someone can help me!! There's this guy who I really like, but he is sending me mixed signals!! Does he really like me, or should I just give up on him?First off, I'm 20 years old and I have never been in a relationship. My Dad treated my Mom like dirt, and talks down about women all the time. So my confidence isn't very good, at all. I don't drink, party, smoke, do drugs any of that, and in my town, there is no one else like me. So it's hard to meet guys, not that I would probably have the courage to talk to them anyway.But, my friend introduced me to her cousins best friend, and he is amazing! I seriously have stronger feelings for him then I thought possible, and we don't even know each other all that well yet. He is so much like me, we share the same beleifs and values. We have pretty much only talked online, we hung out twice in a group but mostly online, one night for 5 and half hours straight of nonstop talking, and it was amazing. After that night we didn't talk for a while, and then he posted a myspace survey about how he hoped someone was falling in love with him... and I knew it wasn't me, because we hadn't talked. It also said that if someone liked him he would want to know, so I MADE myself message him and tell him that even though we didn't now each other that well, I liked what I knew about him, and that I thought I could like alot more about him... and then we started talking again, only to have him tell me that before we met he was talking with another girl and they didn't talk for like a week and he started talking to a differet girl.. so now he needs to figure everything out, and that is why he didn't talk to him for a while, he didn't want to hurt me while he was figuring it out. I told him that I understood that and we decided that we both wanted to be friends BEFORE something else that we would talk and keep getting to each other and get to know each other really good. When he told me about the other girls he was like, i am NOT a player. i have never been in this situation before and i feel really bad about it.So we text, message, aim each other all the time. When we are talking and we agree on something he says stuff like, Haha See!! Then randomly the other day, he just stopped talking to me, so I joked around and texted him So Nikki (our mutual friend) says that since you didn't text me obviously you flushed your phone down the toilet so I just sending my condolences, lol :) Nothing!! So I don't know, I am realllllllly confused.I am being told that he doesn't mean to do this, but he's never been in a relationship, and he doesn't know he is playing me. I don't know!! Pleaseee help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010): i think he's a good guy.....
wait for him
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