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female
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anonymous
writes:I'm 14, female, and bi. I know they say I may be too young to be 'in love' but I honestly, truely believe I am. There's this girl, who is now a very good friend of mine, that I've known for almost a year and a half. We became friends quickly. Since the day we first talked I was already flirting with her (my other friend noticed). Anyway, she knows that I have very strong feelings for her, because I told her..exactly how I felt. She knows I love her. In the summer she questioned her sexuality. She's once said I gave her butterflies then took it back. What really is killin me is that a couple weeks ago she told my best friend who is also her best friend that she likes me. I tried talking to her about it because I found out and she said she doesn't know if she likes me. 4-5 other people thought she liked me also before she even told my best friend. She keeps changing her mind all the time. So, I guess she likes a guy again right now. Whats up with her? Why does she keep saying things then taking it all back?
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reader, Entirely Unique  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 She might still be confused about her sexuality or she could have interests in both males and females.
This might also be really strange for her, you might be the first female she's had any feelings for, any attraction towards and she might be struggling to understand it.
I would give her time to work out what she wants and then try talking to her.
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